As the saying goes: \”An old man in a family is like a treasure.\” Sometimes an ordinary and tasteless saying from an old man can reach the hearts of children, untie the \”knot\” that the children and grandchildren cannot understand, and make them feel at ease. I think of the host Ni Ping\’s grandma. She was an old man who had never been to school for a day and didn\’t know a word, but she often told the truth that made Ni Ping realize something. As Ni Ping believes: Grandma\’s words are simple and plain but full of philosophy. They are just as worthless as radish and cabbage, but they are the most pleasant and good thing for the stomach. Every family has an old man like Grandma Ni Ping. Their words are like a simple Xinhua dictionary. If you study them carefully, each word has its own inner meaning. Common words are the most nourishing common words in the world. Reading them carefully can make people feel calm and comfortable. 6980 yuan Zhang Guowei\’s comprehensive parent-child relationship skills recording + handouts + shorthand notes. Don\’t look at other people\’s footprints when walking. Have your own backbone. Only by having your own opinions can you have your own life. When Mrs. Thatcher was a child, her father was the owner of a grocery store. On her fifth birthday, her father pulled her over and said: \”Child, you have to remember – you have to have your own opinion in everything and use your own brain to judge.\” Don\’t follow what others say about the right and wrong of things. This is the life motto given to you by your father, and it is also the most important birthday gift from your father!\” When Mrs. Thatcher began to attend school as a child, she saw that her classmates had unusual free time arrangements. Rich, either going out on the street or playing games, or going for a picnic on a bicycle. She felt very itchy after seeing it, so she said to her father: \”Dad, I also want to play.\” After hearing this, her father said seriously: \”Son, you have to make your own decision on this; I am not not letting you go out. Instead, if you just choose what others do and follow the crowd, you will achieve nothing.\” Mrs. Thatcher, who was still a little girl, figured it out: \”Yeah, why should I learn from others? I still have There are a lot of things to do, and I haven’t finished the book I just bought.” Only by having your own opinions on all choices can you find the path that suits you best; only by walking in your own direction can you shine with the brilliance you deserve. . Before doing something, work hard; if you can\’t do it, just let it go and read the story of a netizen who changed careers. Because the netizen likes computer programming and feels that he can find a good job with high salary, he resolutely resigned from his clerical job and turned to computers without much experience and foundation; but because he had almost zero foundation, he chose to invest in computer programming when looking for a job. Hundreds of resumes were submitted, but very few received responses. Regardless of whether I was looking for other positions with a slightly lower salary or a slightly related position, I was rejected one by one. During the period of resigning, netizens submitted resumes during the day and learned programming knowledge at night. They worked hard to achieve their goals. However, there was a big gap between their abilities and job requirements, and in the end they had to accept the reality. The situation at that time gave netizens a heavy blow. They often doubted whether their previous decisions were correct and whether they were really interested in this industry. Seeing his decadent look, friends around him enlightened him: \”Everyone has what they are good at. They are inherently unequal, and their abilities always vary, so there is no need to be demanding and be kind to yourself.\” Later, netizens slowly calmed down. mood, decisionStudy deeply first and don’t let yourself get entangled in the present. Before doing something, we must be determined to win and be 100% prepared; at the same time, we should also be clear that not everything can be done according to our wishes, just as Li Ruzhen wrote in \”Flowers in the Mirror\”: \”Do your best to obey the destiny. .\” There are too many variable factors in one thing. Do what you should do, accept that it will backfire, and don\’t screw yourself. Whenever you go out, you should have a reliable \”companion\” to help each other when needed. \”A sedan chair is carried by someone else\” is a Hangzhou proverb, which means that people cannot do without mutual protection and help. Hu Xueyan is a famous red-top businessman in modern China. He is very particular about helping each other with the people around him when he is away from home. In the early years, Hu Xueyan helped Wang Youling get the position of Huzhou magistrate, which facilitated his own career in the later period. Hu Xueyan plans to let his bank handle the treasury silver, but to implement this, he must get through Master Qian Gu. Wang Youling helped him crucially by getting to know Master Qian Gu and asking him to agree to his request. That year coincided with the Dragon Boat Festival. When Hu Xueyan found out where Master Qian Gu\’s family rested, he took the initiative to send money and food needed for the festival, but in the name of Wang Youling. When Master Qian Gu found out, he went to thank Wang Youling, but Wang Youling said that this was Hu Xueyan\’s intention. The two cleverly helped each other, and the matter of taking care of the treasury\’s silver was quickly accomplished. Many times, with the help of one more person, the final effect achieved far exceeds the capabilities of two people. \”Without beams, the house will collapse sooner or later. If there is no one to help, no matter how hard you are, you won\’t be able to survive!\” Grandma Ni Ping\’s words echoed in her ears again, highlighting the need for mutual help. If you don\’t do something well, you won\’t be able to do it well. Teacher Nan Huaijin has a philosophy: why should a person study? Reading is to understand reason, that is, to understand the principles of life. If people do not do well, things will not be done well, and life will be even more difficult. Only when you are reliable, will you feel at ease when others tell you things to do, and will you be able to do things well if you have a good character. For example, someone you know wants to ask you for a favor, but many people around you say that your character is not good, which creates an unknown risk for the person asking you for help. Bai Yansong once said: \”Character is the highest degree, and the unity of virtue and talent is the real wisdom.\” Being a good person is the key to doing things well. Be a good person before doing things. This principle applies everywhere. Everyone has a different background. Don’t be “covetous” when you see good ones, and don’t look down upon bad ones. I saw a report that compiled statistics on the family background of the recipients of the National Top Science and Technology Award since its establishment in 2000. The results show that: 38% of the winners have well-to-do families, and their parents have university education or hold important positions in the government; 27% of the winners have relatively advantageous family backgrounds, and their parents have professional skills; and the remaining 12% of the winners have a mixed family background. He had no advantages. When he was young, he even dropped out of school because of his poor family. The birth environment and background of people are very different. Some people are born in Rome, while others are born in very ordinary families. But in terms of results, even if the gap is not small, you have every chance to achieve the same results through your own efforts to catch up.. Therefore, when you see a person with favorable conditions, you don\’t need to be overly timid or have low self-esteem. Instead, you can learn from him and chase after him. Don\’t look down upon those whose conditions are not as good as yours. If you can, help them. After all, everyone has their own difficulties. You must have your own \”money pocket\” to save money when necessary. Life is like a sailboat sailing in the vast ocean. It is inevitable to encounter strong winds and waves. Sickness of family members and changes in work all require money. Having a plan to keep some \”deposits\” for yourself and leaving yourself a way out is the most reliable way to survive. I have seen a real news: He Tingbo, a product president of Huawei, revealed in an internal letter that Huawei had a \”spare tire\” plan for \”chips\” many years ago. If one day foreign advanced chips and technology are not available, then The chips and technologies independently developed over the years will be \”regularized\” to ensure the strategic security of most products. In fact, life should be like this. We don’t know if or when an accident will come, so we need to prepare a “fallback path” for unknown risks so that we won’t be knocked down by sudden changes and turn over. Which one comes first, health, family or making money, you have to have a balance in your heart. Yi Shu said: \”When I was forty years old, I had good health, a little savings, a considerate husband, obedient children, and a job I really liked. This was success. , you don’t have to be famous or rich.” This sentence points out the importance of body and family: without a healthy body and a harmonious family, no matter how much money you earn, it will not bring a strong sense of happiness. The source of happiness is to always have loved ones by your side and be healthy and free from illness and disaster. When you haven’t earned all the money, don’t be greedy. Just be content. Don’t “lose the watermelon and pick sesame seeds.” In order to make money, ignore the red lights of your body and don’t care about your family. In the end, it’s really a waste of money. . In this life, one cannot be in a hurry. The blessings that should come will not be delayed in a day. Many things will come naturally, and one cannot be in a hurry. Any good results will not come easily; life is a cause and effect, where blessings and misfortunes depend on each other. If you endure hardship, blessings will come naturally. Wang Yangming was once demoted to Longchang, a desolate no-man\’s land. But he did not give up hope there. Instead, he had a good attitude, tempered himself unhurriedly, and lived the current life with a normal heart. Because of these experiences, he helped him create the \”Yangming Theory\” and became a famous thinker and writer in the Ming Dynasty of my country. \”Liaofan\’s Four Instructions\” says: \”My fate is up to me, and I seek my own blessings. Every sweat I shed for the present will be firmly recorded by fate, so that blessings can come to those who work hard in the future. Eat It’s important to be full and refreshed. Worry is only one day, happiness is also one day. People live with a state of mind. When you ask for something and don’t ask for it, do something and don’t do something, don’t be snobbish and flattering, just be yourself and be happy When you live on earth, you are happy. A kind-hearted wise man was robbed at home, and his friends wrote to comfort him, but he said: \”Thank God, I am very good now.\” \”Because the thief only took away things and did not harm my life; he only took away part of it, not all of it; he was the thief, not me. A good attitude is the secret of happiness. Dickens said: \”Soundness A mentality is more powerful than having a hundred wisdoms.\”It is normal for a person\’s life to be filled with joys and sorrows. In the face of joys and sorrows, learn to be free and easy, try to take it lightly, and have a normal mind. This is the most correct way of life. If you don\’t listen to the old man\’s words, you will suffer the consequences in front of your eyes. Parents You can never be a hands-off shopkeeper. This is a popular mantra among the people. It makes sense if you think about it carefully. Old people have a lot of experience and are knowledgeable. With their advice, you can avoid many detours. During the Three Kingdoms period, there was such an old man who was dying I entrusted some things to future generations, but they did not take them to heart and paid a heavy price for it. The old man was Liu Bei. When Liu Bei asked Zhuge Liang to ask for his help, he said that Ma Di exaggerated. Although he had read many books, he had no real ability. , it is best not to use him. But Zhuge Liang did not take it to heart and reused Ma Di. Later, during the Northern Expedition, Ma Di was sent to guard the street pavilion, but because of his insistence, the street pavilion was eventually lost in the hands of others. A common saying or saying is The crystallization of the wisdom of the old people, and what they say is usually sincere advice. Although the times are always moving forward, we can refer to the advice of the old people as appropriate based on our own actual situation. After all, wisdom information always gets better and better as it accumulates. It has flavor. The most universal truth, the most persuasive. Home-cooked meals that nourish people are the most inseparable. Homely words spoken from the bottom of the heart are the compass that cannot be lost on the road ahead. At a loss. Whenever you are confused and sleepy, you can take it out and read it over and over again; by slowly ruminating on the words of advice and instructions, you can also realize the truth. A plain meal of one vegetable and one meal can best soothe the irritable heart. , simple and easy-to-understand truths are the best to speak to people\’s ears. The old man\’s homely words are like clear boiled water. Although it does not come in various colors like drinks, it is the most thirst-quenching. Every point is simple and concrete. , useful. 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