Education reform starts with parent education. Where is everyone’s dissatisfaction with education mainly reflected? It’s nothing more than something wrong with the children, that is, today’s students are fragile, have poor resistance to frustration, often run away from home, or commit suicide; they only know how to solve problems, have poor creativity, and have poor ability to solve practical problems; they are too selfish and lack the ability to unite and cooperate. etc. These are, in the final analysis, a matter of being a human being. Family Education Experience – Zheng Yuanjie\’s Complete Family Education Course MP3 [Complete 41 Episodes] Parents are their children\’s first and most important teachers, but currently Chinese parents are seriously lacking in this aspect. What is a tutor? It is the precepts and deeds of parents to their children, which is often reflected in non-intellectual factors. For example, gratitude, respect for others, basic rules, etc. are actually to help children become a qualified social person. What kind of person a child becomes depends, to some extent, first on his parents. But unfortunately, parents hardly pay much attention to this, let alone correct educational concepts and talent concepts. When it comes to tutoring, it turns into paying teachers to teach cultural classes, rather than parents\’ practice. Chinese parents are very willing to spend money on their children\’s education, and they are willing to sell it, but they forget their own responsibilities and contributions. What\’s more, some powerful and wealthy people exchange money for responsibility. When their children are very young, they spend huge sums of money to study abroad alone. On the surface, they contribute to the children, but in fact they are irresponsible. Once a child has a problem, we often blame the school and society instead of reflecting on ourselves. When we accuse exam-oriented education, do we reflect that we are also active promoters? Are you forcing your children to sign up for a lot of tutoring classes? When we accuse society of disorder, are we setting an example for our children? If you are not engaged in specialized research work, most of the knowledge learned in school will be forgotten. However, collaboration, gratitude, creativity, imagination, endurance, introspection, etc., will eventually settle down. In these aspects of education, Parents can and should play a greater role. The education system and philosophy in the United States are not perfect. In the United States, due to educational philosophy, parents are dissatisfied, and about 2.6 million students are homeschooled. Among the top 10 universities in the United States, 7% come from this category of students. Parents are using their own power to make adjustments and correct their dissatisfaction with American education. No education system or concept in the world is perfect, and the same is true in the United States. Everyone feels that there are currently many problems in Chinese education. The government and public opinion are introspecting and reviewing and trying to solve this problem. Many Chinese experts often talk about how good American education is. Indeed, American education has its advanced ideas and methods, and there are things worth learning from. However, I think that while learning from American experience, Chinese parents should first make up for the lesson of family education; education Reform should first start with changing parents, so that parents understand their responsibilities, establish a correct view of talents, and truly know how to guide their children to grow and become talents. From a global perspective, there is actually no essential difference in concepts and practices for cultivating an outstanding person, such as dedication, strict norms and requirements, and treating others.Be friendly, know how to be grateful, etc. Therefore, we do not need to always talk about the United States, but we should first inherit the excellent educational concepts of our nation and carry forward the correct family education concepts. Only when parents are in place and the correct concepts are in place can China\’s education issues fundamentally change. (Ma Zhenyi) Seven situations that cause parents to be inattentive to education: 1. Thinking that children’s education is a matter for the school and has little to do with their own education; 2. Thinking that they are too busy, physically and mentally exhausted, and have no time to take care of their children’s learning, and lack of mental energy. ; 3. Think that family education is an empty theory, which sounds good but does not work in practice; 4. believes that it is natural to let nature take its course, and let children take their own course without much interference; 5. believes that family education is about learning Education, the education of learning means doing homework and attending cram schools. 6. Think that family education means allowing children to attend various tutoring classes, such as music, art, piano, etc. 7. Think that family education is just about making demands. As for how to learn, I don’t know and I am not willing to explore. In fact, family education is the education for children\’s life growth, which is to let children develop the awareness that they can learn, be good at learning, know how to live, be good at life, know how to get along, and be good at getting along, and be willing to practice and explore. Family education is the education of the \”roots\” and the education of the \”soul\”. Only when the roots are strong, the soul is good, and the state is good, can the branches be thick and the leaves are fat. \”! In today\’s information age, it is difficult for our parents to educate their children well if they do not study. Because we live in an era of quick success and instant benefits, many people are impatient, follow social trends of thought, are coerced by popular trends, and lack rational thinking and long-term vision. So how to be a good parent? You can use the following to see what kind of parent you are? Level 1: Be willing to spend money on your children. Level 2: Be willing to spend time for your children. The third level: Parents begin to think about the goals of education. The fourth level: Parents improve and improve themselves in order to educate their children. Level 5: Parents do their best to support and encourage their children to become their best selves, and also lead by example to support their children to become their true selves. There is no doubt about the importance of family education. But the role of teachers is also very important. How can teachers, parents, and children cooperate to achieve better educational results? The following 33 iron rules tell you! The 33 iron laws of education in China that teachers, parents and children should know! 1. The main factor that affects children’s performance is not the school, but the family. 2. If there is a problem with family education, the child may have a hard time at school, and the child may become a \”problem child\” in the school. 3. For children with good grades, their mothers usually have plans and quick actions. The more conscientious, organized, and polite the father is, the better his children\’s grades will be. 4. Poverty is an important educational resource, but the poorer you are, the better it is for your children’s growth. Parents need to provide basic cultural information for their children to prevent them from falling into the abyss of inferiority complex. 5. Wealth is another more advanced educational resource. The experience of Westerners is: \”It takes three generations of efforts to cultivate a nobleman.\” \”Class is hereditary.\” However, moreAdvanced educational resources require more advanced educational skills. Without more advanced educational skills, wealthy families will bring disaster to their children\’s growth. 6. Don’t be a parent who is knowledgeable but illiterate. Some people are highly educated, but not necessarily educated. If a parent doesn\’t know how to live well, doesn\’t know how to treat others well, or even doesn\’t know how to treat his own children well, no matter how high his academic level is, he is also an uneducated person. 7. Parents can put their children as the center of the world, but don’t forget that parents also need to live independent lives. If parents completely focus on their children and no longer have their own life themes, such parents will often interfere with their children\’s growth in the name of love. Sometimes, it\’s not that children can\’t live without their parents, but that parents can\’t live without their children. 8. Parents need to bear the responsibility of educating their children, but they should not completely cancel their leisure life just because of educating their children. \”Having no sense of responsibility hurts others, but having too much responsibility hurts yourself.\” (Wu Jiaxiang\’s words) 9. If parents quickly pick up the child when the child cries, then the child will take advantage of this characteristic of the parents to often pester the parents and make more demands. . Therefore, when the child is crying, don\’t rush to pick up the child. It is best for parents to let themselves have something to do and let the child watch them do things quickly. 10. The relationship between husband and wife affects the personality of children. If a man disrespects his wife, his son will learn to disrespect his female classmates in school. If a woman disrespects her husband, her daughter will learn to look down on her male classmates in school. 11. Education is to cultivate people’s spiritual appearance. The mission of parents and teachers is to let children gradually take responsibility for their own spiritual appearance, remove all kinds of contamination that they may be contaminated with, and cultivate the spiritual \”seeds\” in people so that they can breathe the mountain air and feel proud. 12. Educated parents are \”Voltairians\”, \”I don\’t agree with your point of view, but I will defend to the death your right to speak.\” They began to reason with their children from the day they were born and patiently solicited their opinions. Don\’t expect that spanking and scolding your children will teach them obedience. The result of killing a chicken and showing it to a monkey is that the monkey also learned to kill the chicken. 13. Let children become both passionate and rational people. \”Without passion, no great undertaking can begin well; without reason, no feat can end well.\” 14. Let your children become educated people. Being educated means being punctual, lining up, not speaking loudly in public, and not being able to speak loudly in public. Getting angry easily begins. 15. Be kind. If your child is kind, don\’t laugh at his weakness. A person who likes to take advantage often suffers greatly because he is disliked by others. A person who is willing to suffer a small loss will take advantage in the future because he is liked by others. 16. Physical vitality can bring mental vitality. A person with good health and a sunny personality. People who are in poor health are hesitant to do things, evasive, and hesitant to speak. 17. Don’t think that children from 1 to 6 years old are just the age when their bodies grow. If parents let their children spend time with grandparents from 1 to 6 years old, and then take the children back to primary school when they are 6 years old, then this child willLearn to either become a silent silent person or a lawless troublemaker. 18. Frequently do three things with your children: first, eat with your children, second, invite your children to repair toys, furniture or clothes together, and occasionally invite your children to help solve difficulties at work. The third is to tell stories to children and invite them to tell stories themselves. 19. If there are no special difficulties, it is best for parents to rush home and have meals with their children every day. The common values of a family are established in the process of the whole family eating around the same table. 20. Tell stories to children and invite them to tell stories themselves. Let children establish reading and writing habits starting from listening to stories. Let children learn to read independently as early as possible and develop a lifelong reading habit as early as possible. \”As long as people are still studying, they will not be completely degenerate. Those who are completely degenerate will not study.\” Parents who never tell stories to their children are irresponsible parents. 21. There are three critical periods for a child’s growth: the first is around 3 years old, the second is around 9 years old, and the third is around 13 years old. If you miss the critical period of growth, you will have endless troubles. 22. It is not \”standing at thirty\”, but \”standing at three years old\”. Around the age of three, children must establish the courage and habit of being self-reliant. Whatever you can do, you must do it yourself, and whatever you should do, you should do your best. 23. If your child likes Frost\’s poem when he is 13 years old: \”Two roads diverged in a wood, and I took the one less traveled by\”, this is normal, don\’t worry, he may choose to take it later. The one where most people walk. 24. A person’s life is filled with a lot of secret love. If your child has a crush on someone of the opposite sex, please don\’t laugh at him. \”Secret love is the most beautiful love in the world.\” (Socrates) 25. It is necessary for parents to reason with their children, but when reasoning with children around 13 years old, they must pay attention to their posture. Posture is more important than reason. important. Otherwise, the child will be disgusted and rebel. The child will say: What you say is correct, but the way you speak is annoying. 26. The secret in the heart is a sign of growth and maturity. If your child has something on his mind that he doesn\’t want to tell you, don\’t force him to tell you his secret. 27. When a child is around 3 years old, it is best to have an inaction-laissez-faire parent by his side. When a child is around 9 years old, it is best to have a positive and authoritative parent by his side. When a child is around 13 years old, it is best to have passive democratic parents around him. Effective education is strict first and then loose. Ineffective education is first loose and then strict. 28. You must pay attention to your child\’s academic performance, but don\’t care too much about his ranking. But we need to be wary of those children who are always first in academic performance. Some children have good academic performance and good character. Some children have good academic performance but are selfish, lack sympathy and have no interest in life. 29. You must let your children learn to interact with others and accept their friends happily. \”If parents are dissatisfied with their neighbors, are very picky about their children\’s friends, or do not allow their children to make friends with them, making the children feel as if they are very different from others, then it will be difficult for these children to grow up. Relate naturally to anyoneat. 30. Children need companions to grow up. Let children have their own friends, but do not have too messy companions. Before the child has developed mature rationality and judgment, be wary of the child\’s bad habits from his peers. 31. Let your children establish a healthy aesthetic sense as early as possible. Promising men will definitely like healthy women. Don\’t let your children\’s aesthetics sink into vulgarity and morbidity. Don’t think that those who are small or sick are fine. Don\’t think that those who are powerful are all bad. Don\’t think that little sparrows, little sheep, and puppies are all cute, and don\’t think that lions, tigers, and wolves are all bad. Don\’t think that all jackals are cannibals. Jackals only eat those who are weaker than themselves. 32. \”The Catcher in the Rye\” contributed a word to the world: watch. Education is neither about controlling nor ignoring. Between managing and not caring, there is a word called \”watching\”. 33. Tell your children: Children who listen carefully will occasionally get good grades, but children who study carefully on their own will always get good grades! These 33 classic statements about family education will last throughout a child’s life!