Yesterday I was scrolling through Weibo and came across a horrifying video: Crossing the road once was no longer a big deal, but now there were naughty children running back and forth on the road, crossing it 13 times in just 3 minutes. In the end, tragedy did happen! ! ! On May 7, in Songyang County, Tongling, Anhui Province, two boys ran and played on the main road in the city, crossing the road back and forth 13 times in 3 minutes! In the end, a passing car failed to get out of the way and knocked down a 6-year-old boy. The first safety education lesson of the school year, Lebi Yoyo\’s complete collection of popular science knowledge, all 52 episodes. Later, the boy was sent to the hospital for treatment. Fortunately, his life was not in danger. Currently, he is still under observation and treatment in the hospital. According to Tongling Public Security Bureau, the parents were in a roadside house at the time of the incident and did not notice the child\’s dangerous behavior. Netizens were furious when they saw this. This was not a car hitting a child, but a child hitting a car! Although the words are a bit extreme, it is true. Cars are driving on the road normally, and it is the children who should not be running on the road. Some netizens expressed angrily that it was not the children who should be beaten, but the parents. Even the most basic education is not done well, and the children are allowed to run around on the road without any sense of rules. And traffic rules are related to life safety! ! ! Jaywalking not only blocks traffic but also threatens yourself. Children don’t know that “life is not a rehearsal, and safety is not a trivial matter.” Don’t parents know that either? Hundreds of billions of dollars are lost every year due to car accidents around the world; one person is killed every fifteen minutes in the world; one person is disabled in a traffic accident every minute; these are places with traffic lights and surveillance. Complying with the rules is not only your own protection, but also respect for the lives of others. Professor Li Meijin of the People\’s Public Security University of China once said that many psychological problems in children originate from the way parents raise their children before the age of 12, which includes telling children rules as early as possible. Children who do not follow the rules will use various methods to achieve their own goals. Their behavior will become more and more extreme and destructive. Children who do not follow the rules will sooner or later be taught lessons by others, educated by society, and may even pay the price with their lives. By that time, parents will be helpless and it will be too late! Telling children rules from an early age actually protects them fundamentally. Children who respect the rules will also be protected by the rules! How to teach children to abide by the rules 01丨Teaching by words and deeds is more important than anything else. There is a saying in children\’s education: parents are the originals, and children are the copies. When there is a problem with the copy, the reason must be found in the original. Education is a subtle influence day after day. Whatever parents want their children to do, they must do it first. From the moment children begin to understand the world and begin to observe the behavior of people around them, they see what their parents are doing, and they will follow suit. Parents must first become who they want their children to be. Last year in Yantai, Shandong Province, a tourist went to Changdao and was dissuaded by staff because his child wanted to take away the ball stones from the scenic spot. Although the staff patiently tried to dissuade him, the tourist still refused to give up: the ticket is 140 yuan, so just take a stone; the child is crying, so why not just take one; what do you want to do with a child who is only 2 or 3 years old? Ball stones in scenic spotsIt has been washed away by the sea for many years before it is revealed to the world. It is a non-renewable resource. If it is not allowed to be taken, it cannot be taken. If everyone took one or two pieces, the stones in the scenic area would be gone long ago. How can parents who don\’t follow the rules teach their children to follow the rules? 02丨There must be punishment and a bottom line. When a child has bad behavior, there must be punishment, and it must be real punishment, not just talk. Why do parents sometimes say that they have told their children over and over again, but it just doesn’t work? Then you have to think back to see if he did something wrong, such as littering on the subway. Tell him not to litter, and then pick it up yourself. The next time you nag a few words, the child won\’t listen and stop talking. This kind of education is generally useless, because the child does not bear the natural consequences, and you do it for him. When parents have told their children – they are not allowed to make noise in public places, they are not allowed to run around, and they are not allowed to interfere with public order. So this is the bottom line we set. Once a breakthrough is made, corresponding measures must be taken and the child must pay a \”price.\” Littering, okay, then we will pick up all the rubbish in the area where you threw rubbish. You are not allowed to go home until you have picked up all the rubbish. Let the children experience why littering is not allowed, because it will damage the public environment and destroy the cleaning workers\’ ability. The fruits of labor. If one punishment is not enough, then two. Once a child experiences the consequences of doing so, he will never make such a mistake again. However, regardless of whether the child has his or her own reasons, it is basic courtesy for adults to apologize to the person affected. 03丨The process of enforcing the rules must be resolute. The process of enforcing the rules must be resolute and cannot be changed overnight. Since it is a rule, it means that it must be followed unconditionally under any conditions. If you do not run a red light, you cannot run it even if there is no car passing by. Even if everyone runs a red light, you cannot run it. There are no exceptions. Everyone must respect the authority of the rules. When your child asks you in a cooing voice, \”Mom, why did I queue up according to the rules but have to be exposed to the scorching sun?\” Mom, I also want to eat shrimp and chicken wings; Mom, I also want to feed the deer… you will Will you not be soft-hearted and compromise with your children? Taking the first step against the rules for your baby? Do you tell yourself that it’s okay to break the rules for the love of your children? What you do will directly affect your child\’s attitude towards rules in the future. Perhaps traffic safety is still a very abstract concept for children, so it is recommended that parents use traffic safety game picture books to increase their children\’s understanding of traffic signs, learning to cross the road, and understand the dangers of blind spots through play, so that Children can more consciously protect themselves when crossing the road. Safety education knowledge children’s cartoon video Train Superman Chinese version complete set [140 episodes in total] In addition, parents can also play some games with their children and let them go for a walk while blindfolded at home. If they feel that touching things randomly will be dangerous, they will There was a bump and injury. Through games, let children feel that following the rules of the game is a good thing. As long as you know the traffic rules well in advance and practice them several times with your children, it is very effective. Parents must abide by traffic rules, set a good example for their children, and lead by example, is the best education. I hope this incident will serve as a wake-up call for parents to pay attention to children’s safety education.