How to hold a baby is actually a very particular matter, especially for babies less than three months old. The neck and spine are not yet fully developed, and the baby\’s neck muscles are unable to control the posture of the head and neck, so The baby may be hurt if the baby is held in the wrong posture. If the baby is held in a crooked neck (that is, the child can tilt his head to both sides, but most of the time it is tilted to one side) or scoliosis (that is, the spine is abnormally curved) ), causing the baby\’s development to be delayed or even become a hunchback. Therefore, at different ages, different holding positions should be adopted. A baby between 0-2 months old should be held horizontally. A newborn baby has a soft cervical spine, a big and heavy head, and a weak body. In addition, the baby is in the mother\’s belly before birth. Both are in a flexed position. If there is no support for the head and neck when being picked up, there will be a feeling of falling, and the baby will feel insecure or even frightened. Common mistakes include not supporting the head and waist. The correct way to hold the baby is to put the baby\’s head in the crook of your arm, protect the baby\’s legs with your elbow, and drag the baby\’s butt and waist with the other hand, so that the baby can feel both support and warmth. Special emphasis: Although babies between 1 and 2 months old can raise their heads slightly, because the newborn\’s neck and back muscles are not fully developed, holding the baby upright for a long time will put all the weight of the baby\’s head on the cervical spine, which is harmful to the baby\’s spine. Do not hold the baby upright for a long time to support the weight of the head. 3-5-month-old babies should be held diagonally. As the baby grows older, simply lying down/holding horizontally can no longer satisfy the baby. Although babies at this stage can hold their heads upright for a short time, their neck and back muscles are not fully developed. Therefore, in order to expand their field of vision, babies will use crying to \”coerce\” parents to change their holding positions. A common mistake is to hold the baby horizontally because it makes the baby cry, so adults hold the baby vertically. The correct way to hold the baby is to hold it diagonally, that is, the tilt angle can be slightly larger when holding the baby. However, it is recommended not to hold the baby vertically too early, because holding the baby vertically too early, too long, or in the wrong posture may injure the baby\’s spine. These injuries are not easy to detect at the time, but they will affect the baby\’s future growth and development. For example, some babies appear to lean back when being held vertically, which is a reminder to parents that it is not advisable to hold them vertically for a long time at this time. Special emphasis: It is recommended that parents delay holding upright as long as possible. Even if they cannot change it for a while, they should shorten the time of each upright hold according to the baby\’s own situation. At the same time, when holding the baby upright, they must support the head and neck to stabilize the baby\’s body. Head and neck to prevent head and neck injuries from violent shaking. For babies over 6 months old, holding the baby vertically is not a problem at this stage, but the strong curiosity will make the baby like to look around and interact with people, while the vertical hold face to face may affect the baby\’s line of sight, so the baby will Twist left and right. Common Mistakes The face-to-face holding method is very difficult for parents. The correct way is to try a variety of holding positions. When holding the baby upright, parents can change the position, for example: ❶ Let the baby face the adult, with one hand on the chest and the other hand on the abdomen, so that the baby can The head and back can be placed on the adult\’s chest, and the body has a support point. ❷ One hand of the parent protects the baby\’s butt and the other hand supports the babyThe head, neck and back allow the baby\’s chest to be close to the adult\’s chest and shoulders, allowing the baby to stretch naturally. Special emphasis: You can usually have your baby lie on his stomach more often, and practice raising his head more often so that he can better control his head. In addition, when holding the baby vertically, you must also follow the principle of keeping the head and body in line and not overstressing the spine. The bones of babies grow quickly. If they are held in the arms for a long time, the normal growth of the bones may be affected. Therefore, it is not recommended for parents to hold the baby for a long time, especially for newborns. In addition, for babies who are prone to spitting up milk, it is best to hold them diagonally, which can prevent or reduce the degree of spitting up milk.