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How to raise grateful children


Oct 1, 2023

The highest level of wealth a family can show off is not a house or a car, but raising children who know how to be grateful. No matter how big the house is, it is only for living in, and no matter how expensive the car is, it is only for transportation. Raising a grateful child is better than having a rich family. Children know how to be grateful, and families thrive from generation to generation. On the contrary, a child who is ungrateful will be the greatest sorrow for a family, bringing disaster to itself and all the nine races. The lack of gratitude education in children will eventually severely punish parents. Educator Fon Naski said: \”What a child becomes is all shaped by his parents.\” Parents\’ precepts and deeds are their children\’s best teachers. Educating your children well is the most important thing for a parent. career. Parental education will affect the rest of their lives, the lives of their children, and the fate of a family. If children lack gratitude education when they grow up, parents will eventually suffer the consequences. A 30-year-old man in Tianjin asked his parents for 60,000 yuan in gift money, but his parents really couldn\’t afford it. Because before that, they had already spent all their savings and borrowed 300,000 yuan in debt to pay the down payment for their son\’s wedding house. The man did not understand his parents because of this, but scolded him blindly: \”You are so poor, why did you give birth to me?\” \”Are you going to force me to death?\” \”Then go die!\” Finally, the mother jumped from the fifth floor. He jumped and died on the spot. In front of children who are ungrateful, no matter how much parents give, it will never be enough. Children who are ungrateful will only enjoy everything given by their parents as a matter of course, greedily believing that their parents must provide for them throughout their lives, and taking things as their own that do not originally belong to them. When their parents cannot satisfy their greed, they will regard their parents as enemies, speak ill of them, or even fight them. Such children are undoubtedly \”white-eyed wolves\” in human skin. They have long lost their conscience and are not worthy of being human. It is difficult for children who are doted on or lack love to appreciate today\’s society. Many children have become the apple of their family\’s eye and are held in high esteem. Parents do everything for their children day after day, meeting all their needs. Over time, parents\’ contributions become debt and compensation in the children\’s hearts, and they will naturally not be grateful and considerate. They have been able to easily get what they want from their parents since childhood. Not only do they not know how to cherish it and squander it wantonly, but they also internally deny the truth of \”no pain, no gain\”. As an adult, I can eat my old age with peace of mind, treating my parents as cash machines, squeezing out every penny and sucking up every drop of blood. Parenting expert Li Meijin said: \”If your child does not meet his requirements when he is 3 years old, the most he will do is roll around on the floor; but when he is 15 years old, he may self-mutilate, commit suicide and quarrel with you; but when he is 20 years old, he may Resent you, or even attack you.\” Being spoiled is like killing a child. Doting is not love, but a chronic poison that destroys a child and a family. It is difficult for a spoiled child to be grateful, and the same is true for a child who lacks love. \”Education of Love\” says: \”There is no emotion or love in education, just like a pond without water. Without water, it cannot be a pond, and without love, there is no education.\” Children who are ignored by their parents cannot feel Being loved, one can never learn to love and be grateful. As an adult, you will only think about yourself and put yourself first. In life, I only know how to ask for things, but I don’t know how to share. I am indifferent to my parents, and evenRegardless. In their eyes, their parents are just strangers under the same roof. Raising grateful children is the most advanced way for a family to show off its wealth. Nietzsche said: \”Gratitude is the health of the soul.\” Children who know how to be grateful have love in their hearts, which is enough to light up a bright future. I once saw a video that made me deeply moved: a 12-year-old boy went out with his parents who suffered from eye diseases, and the boy walked in front to guide them. Along the way, the boy did not complain, but was willing to act as their eyes. Faced with praise from everyone, he said: \”I just did what I should do.\” These words are the most sincere voice of a child to his parents from his grateful heart. Some people say: \”Gratitude is a virtue and a state.\” I deeply agree. It’s suitable to watch 20 movies with a Douban score of 90 or above on New Year’s Day with your children. When gratitude becomes a habit, people will not take everything for granted, nor will they blame others because they are not satisfied with the smallest things. Instead, we will cherish the beauty in life, share and pass on love and being loved, and let happiness circulate. There is a Greek proverb: \”An ungrateful person cannot be saved when he is in trouble.\” If you are ungrateful, disaster is not far away; if you know how to repay kindness, there is no great kindness. Gratitude is like making a grass ring, drinking water and remembering the source. Raising grateful children is a family’s greatest achievement.

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