Faye Wong and Dou Jingtong: Good parents must first be good themselves

This year\’s Spring Festival Gala, I watched it in three days, for no other reason than to take care of my kids. When Na Ying and Faye Wong came on stage, they still felt like their eyes lit up. Na Ying is obviously older, and Faye Wong is no longer young, but as soon as they speak, it seems like time has returned to 20 years ago. The youth of our generation has their mark. Faye Wong attended the Spring Festival Gala, and her daughter Dou Jingtong posted on Weibo…

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No matter how angry you are, don’t say these things to your children.

Look at you like this, what can you do in the future? I went to a relative\’s house a few days ago. The relative regretted talking about his daughter. Because my daughter is timid and has low self-esteem, now that she has grown up, she always lowers her head when talking to others. In her words, she is timid and has no confidence in anything she does. Relatives said that what they regretted most was leaving their daughter at home. She has been used to being alone since she was a child…

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Effective communication skills with children are the foundation of family education

Communication is an art and a homework, especially between parents and children. As the child\’s first life mentor, the quality of communication between parents and their children determines, to a certain extent, the quality of the parent-child relationship, the quality of family education, and the results of the child\’s mental growth. It can be said that the way of communication with children is the foundation of family education. The communication method is a bit general, but specific…

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Being a mother means being strong. Where exactly is \”strong\”?

A mother of an executive in the financial industry posted an angry message on WeChat Moments: \”The naughty kid can no longer play with his mobile phone. I broke it for him.\” I was stunned. She is famous for loving her children. I sent it and asked: \”What\’s wrong? Are you so angry?\” She replied vigorously, \”I am addicted to playing with mobile phones, so I can only take extreme measures. I am crying and writing a guarantee letter to review…

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Another child was seriously injured by being \”teased\”, please stop hurting my child

It is a good thing for parents and children to have fun and play, which is a good thing to enhance the relationship between parents and children. However, a few days ago, a heartbreaking and regretful thing happened to a 2-year-old girl Feifei. Source: Hubei Economic Television Feifei’s father saw a parent-child interactive somersault game on a video platform and thought it was very fun. In order to make his children happy, he also wanted to try it with his daughter. result…

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After reading the three key stages of a boy’s growth, I suddenly understood

It turns out that they suddenly became \”irritable\” and \”rebellious\”, not because they became bad, but because they grew up. 01 When the boy started to be disliked by the dog Recently, Xiaochuan has become more and more naughty. Jumping up and down, dancing with guns and sticks, and looking for someone to \”fight\” at every turn. We secretly discussed behind his back: \”Why are you not even seven or eight years old yet? The dog is disgusted.\” That day, Chuan\’s father was at home rushing to do some urgent work. this…

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The more the child is pushed, the more he rubs off. The truth is heartbreaking

On the way back from sending her daughter to school in the morning, I saw a mother constantly scolding her child: \”How many times did I rush you this morning? I started waking you up at 7 o\’clock. What time is it now? It\’s 8 o\’clock!\” You haven\’t eaten yet, so just go hungry!\” \”You\’re already late now, let\’s see how the teacher punishes you!\” I looked at the child who kept his head down and said nothing. He looked like…

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A common saying from parents can lead to internal injuries in children for 30 years

A psychological counselor friend told such a case: A 5-year-old girl did not want to talk to her parents, but often talked to herself in front of a stuffed teddy bear. The parents thought their child was suffering from depression and were so anxious that they sought medical treatment everywhere. After multiple psychological treatments, the girl said something that made her parents burst into tears: \”Because the toy can\’t speak to scold me.\” It turned out that the girl\’s mother…

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Praising your child like this may be hurting him

My daughter Yanyan originally loved dancing. Every time she heard that she was going to dance, she was very excited. All her friends praised her: \”Yanyan, you are so talented and you dance so beautifully.\” However, one day she didn\’t want to dance anymore and they forced her to go. She didn\’t want to stand in the classroom with her head down. move. The family feels that the child may lack self-confidence, so in order to make her more confident…

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Child, if you can, please let me be your confidant

Yesterday evening, at the gate of Mizhi No. 3 Middle School in Shaanxi Province, a group of students were attacked with a knife on their way home from school. 19 students (14 women and 5 men) were injured and 9 of them died (7 women and 2 men). The murderer was caught on the spot. He said: When he was a student at Mizhi No. 3 Middle School, he was bullied on campus, so he hated the students. Today he killed someone with a knife in order to vent his hatred and take revenge on society. Even if there are thousands…

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