If you don’t get rid of these 5 habits, your children will only get worse and worse! It’s really too late if you don’t change.

Recently, many parents have asked Rui Ma about their children’s learning issues in the background, such as: What should I do if my child is too playful? My child studies very seriously, why can’t his grades improve? How can I change my child\’s bad study habits? Parents all hope that their children can achieve good results in their studies and be ranked high, but they often ignore some of their children\’s bad habits, resulting in their children\’s performance failing to improve. Below, Rui Ma summarizes 5 bad habits that affect children\’s performance, hoping that parents can discover them in time and help their children correct them. The cultural knowledge of children who do not listen carefully in class mainly comes from the classroom. Therefore, listening carefully in class is the simplest and most effective way to ensure that children achieve good academic results. If children are inattentive in class and often miss work, they are bound to miss a lot of knowledge. Once these knowledge are missed, they cannot make up for it no matter how many extracurricular tutoring classes they attend. Moreover, if you don\’t listen carefully in class and still want to keep up with the teacher\’s progress, it often requires the child to spend more time after class to understand, and he may not be able to master it. The result is naturally more gain than loss. Suggestions: 1) If you want your children to listen carefully in class, cultivating attention is the key! When a child is doing something seriously, even if it is playing, parents should not interrupt the child easily. Educate your children not to multitask, but to concentrate on doing only one thing. Moreover, it is impossible for children to concentrate all the time, and it is normal for their thinking to stagnate. Parents should not force their children all the time. Only by taking proper rest can they learn better. 2) Help children develop study plans and improve efficiency. Children often do not have the ability to proactively plan. Parents can help them make plans so that the children know when they should do things, making learning more targeted and improving academic performance. 3) Provide children with a quiet learning environment to help them get into the zone as quickly as possible. When children are studying, parents should not move around or talk loudly. The time does not need to be too long, two hours is enough. The most important thing is to persevere. Over time, the child will naturally \”be able to sit still\” and develop a good habit of studying calmly. Children are used to looking at answers. When children do homework, they will inevitably encounter questions that they do not know how to solve. When encountering a difficult problem, many children are used to looking at the reference answers as soon as possible, and then looking for solutions based on the answers. In this way , it is easy for children to develop the habit of relying on answers without knowing it, and they also lose the opportunity to think independently. This leads to the fact that when I encounter a question that I don’t know how to solve, I want to take a look at the answer or reference materials. As a result, I still can’t solve the same question next time, and I will never master the knowledge points. Suggestion: Let children learn to think independently. The reason why many children\’s grades fluctuate between high and low is because they do not think independently when solving questions and like to refer to answers or ask others for their methods. When your grades are good, it may be because you happen to encounter questions that you know how to do. When your grades drop, it may be because you have encountered knowledge points that you have not mastered. In fact, many subjects test the application of knowledge points, especially subjects with strong logic like mathematics. Only by thinking carefully can children truly master the knowledge points and integrate them to form a knowledge system.In this way, next time you encounter similar or similar problems, you can draw inferences and easily answer them. The draft is too sloppy. Children generally have the habit of drafting all over before doing science questions or writing essays. However, children\’s drafts are usually messy and messy, and only the children themselves can understand them. Sometimes, children still have ideas when they are drafting, but when they look back at the messy draft, they can no longer sort out their ideas. It can be seen that a sloppy and messy draft will make the child\’s logic and ideas unclear. Moreover, children\’s habit of scribbling in drafts can easily be transferred to any situation where they need to write, such as when doing homework or even writing on a test paper. It is easy to lose unjust points because of the paper. Suggestion: Encourage children to write slowly and stroke by stroke, and to write neatly and beautifully. You can let your children take some time every day to practice calligraphy. They can write less, but the quality must pass the test. Some parents may think that writing a draft is just a matter of speed. If you write slowly, you won’t have enough time. Yes, writing a draft does not waste too much time, but writing a draft is not a long essay. It is more important to help children sort out an idea. Sometimes just list some keywords. Therefore, even if you are making a draft, you must follow your usual writing habits and make it clear. This can not only cultivate children\’s clear thinking, but also cultivate children\’s ability to do things in an orderly manner. Children who don\’t like to check for mistakes generally have poor self-discipline. They just complete the questions and answer them correctly, so they don\’t take the time to analyze the reasons for their mistakes. However, if the mistakes are not corrected, the children will never master the knowledge points of the correct and incorrect questions, and they will still make mistakes next time they encounter the same type of questions, which is equivalent to learning in vain. Therefore, it is necessary for children to develop the habit of checking for errors! Suggestion: Prepare a wrong question book and refer to it regularly. Let your children write down the questions they get wrong in normal times and the questions they get wrong in exams, and carefully analyze the reasons for their mistakes. It is best to do it again, so as to master all the missed knowledge and avoid making mistakes again. And take out the wrong questions and read them regularly to deepen your memory. Especially before the exam, reread the wrong questions you have done before, which is good for improving your performance. The most taboo thing about not paying attention to the combination of work and rest is \”reading books\”. Children are stuck in books all day long without any entertainment activities to relax themselves. Not only will they not get good learning results, but they will also easily suffer from excessive fatigue and lack of concentration. Decreased concentration, memory and thinking abilities, and slow brain response ultimately lead to a decrease in learning efficiency. After a long time, the child\’s body cannot bear it, and physiological symptoms such as neck and shoulder pain and discomfort are prone to occur. Suggestions: 1) Be sure to ensure that children get 8 hours of sleep every day. Only when they are well rested can they make better use of the next day. Don\’t think that it\’s a good thing for children to study under the lamp at night. Children who don\’t get a good rest the night before will be groggy the next day, which directly leads to a decrease in learning efficiency, and the gain outweighs the loss. 2) Reduce children’s psychological stress. Parents are more concerned about their children\’s grades. When their children\’s grades drop, they can\’t help but scold their children or tell them to study harder. This will not only affect the child\’s mental state and make the child anxious, but also distract the child\’s attention. In severe cases, it may even make the child fear learning.. Therefore, parents should encourage their children more and not put too much pressure on them. They should identify the root cause of the problem and prescribe the right medicine. 3) Let children learn to relax. After studying for a period of time, you can let the child get up and move around, or do simple stretching exercises, which can eliminate fatigue, relax the spirit, and help the child carry out the following study in a better spirit. Just focus on two things while your children are in school: study habits and study methods! Developing good study habits and finding correct study methods are the keys to improving children\’s academic performance!