In order not to leave any regrets, children’s musical enlightenment must be cultivated as early as possible!

I have been very busy recently. Last Wednesday, because I left something at home, I had to take time to rush home to get it. It was already evening when I got home. I originally had to go back to work to work overtime, but because OK held me in my arms and said, Mom, don’t always work overtime. Can you listen to music with me for a while? Suddenly, I felt guilty and exhausted. I took leave with everyone that day and did not update my official account. I just stayed with my son and listened quietly for a long time. Later, OK smiled and said to me, Mom, that’s great! I don\’t know if he meant it was nice to be with me, or if it was nice to listen to the music. At that moment, I actually cried. I don’t know whether it was because of OK’s warmth, or because I found that OK had become accustomed to the company of music and had fallen in love with music… The state of those days made me I was overwhelmed with emotions, and suddenly remembered the phrase \”You can\’t accompany your child for a lifetime, but music can!\”, which resonated infinitely. Today I will tell you some interesting information about my regrets and musical enlightenment! If you don’t understand the pain of music and don’t want your children to experience it again, what situation would you be most embarrassed about? For me, it is an occasion where I need to sing. Others are singing, and the atmosphere is very good and exciting, but I am nervous and want to leave. Because I am tone-deaf, I am afraid of being forced to sing a few lines. Because I will definitely not agree to sing in the end, so I am most afraid of an embarrassing stalemate. Why don\’t you just hum a few words? is that really so difficult? Pretentious! Musical people won’t understand. It’s difficult, it’s really difficult: if you ask me to sing a few lines, I would rather write a big paper with tens of thousands of words. I can\’t sing and I feel inferior. When I was in elementary school, I originally loved spring outings and autumn outings, but since I discovered that \”taking turns to sing\” on the way to the destination was a must, I was very afraid of such activities; when I was in high school, I had a crush on the handsome class leader next door. A boy unexpectedly invited me after the college entrance examination and asked me if I wanted to go out to play together. I was so excited, but when I found out that we wanted to go to a KTV together, I struggled for a long time and finally let him go, and we never contacted him again; work Now, when the department is going to put on a show, I will always be asked to sing because of my good voice, but I don’t know how to do it. I refused for a long time and was misunderstood as “not generous”… I feel really miserable! In fact, I might not be so bad at music. When I was in junior high school, I was named by the music teacher to join the school chorus. In order to confirm whether the teacher made a mistake, I asked the teacher specifically to tell me that I couldn\’t sing, but she encouraged me and said that my voice was very good. But later I still felt that I couldn’t do it and gave up. So everything is caused by inferiority complex. In life, we will encounter situations where music is involved. Not knowing music is really a big shortcoming in getting along and interacting with others. Because I don’t want my son to have the same regrets as me, which is discomfort, tension and unhappiness, I insist on hoping that he can learn a little bit. Being able to play music can greatly enhance his self-confidence. Musical enlightenment is key before the age of 6. Have you always envied and admired those who can sing, dance, or know musical instruments? Do you feel that they will shine? For example, Jay Chou, who has small eyes, suddenly makes people feel radiant when he sings while playing the piano; and Wang Kai, a subwoofer, is so charming when he sings affectionately.Another example is Pu Yixing, a school girl from Nanjing University who was very popular a while ago. When she danced hip-hop, her sexiness index skyrocketed. No wonder some American research institutions say that letting children listen to some cheerful music, using music to stimulate their nerves and relax them can also make their faces more beautiful. Scientists in the United States have also conducted experiments. The first group of children were edified in music starting from two months old, allowing them to listen, swing and play to the music. Anyway, they just played along with the music. The second group of children started to be exposed to music at 4 months old. The third group of children are not exposed to music at all. The study found that the brain cell activity of the three groups of children was different. The brain cells of the babies who started to be exposed to music at 2 months were significantly higher than those of the babies who started to be exposed to music at 4 months. After monitoring their growth, it was found that the average intelligence level of children who received systematic music enlightenment was 34% higher than that of children who did not receive music enlightenment. You must know that 80% of music perception is developed before the age of 6. After the age of 6, it can only be developed. The remaining 20%. Every mother hopes that her children will be charming when they grow up. My son is average-looking, and I feel more and more that it is necessary to know something about music. It does not say which instrument must be learned, or where the pitch must be, but the sooner children can be exposed to it, the better. We can use music to awaken the potential and talents in children. , will help enhance his overall temperament. If you achieve one of the four points, the child will be able to have musical cells. Maybe you will say that whether there are musical cells has a lot to do with heredity, and it is indeed the case. But you may not know that all children are born with an appreciation for music. Newborn babies smile when listening to music and frown when hearing noise. This is why, many times, when children cry and you hum softly, they can calm down. Therefore, the musical environment you create for your baby has a far greater impact than the genetic factors you bring to him. Zheng Youhui, a famous Taiwanese children\’s music educator who graduated from the Orff Institute of Music at the Mozarteum Conservatoire in Austria, emphasized that when we judge whether a child has musical talent, we should first ask ourselves four questions: 1. From pregnancy to infancy, early childhood, and childhood, have you created an environment for your children to promote their musical development? 2. During this period, do children have the opportunity to be in a music environment? 3. Are there any musicians or music lovers among your parents or the relatives and friends you get along with every day? 4. Are there any successful musicians in your relatives or family? If the answer to at least one of the above questions is yes, then the child may not necessarily be a genius, but there is no doubt that he has some musical abilities. If the answer is no, then we can only hope that this child will have some \”cell mutations\”. Looking back carefully, I had almost no exposure to music when I was a child. When my mother was pregnant with me, my aunt borrowed the tape recorder at home, so there was no prenatal education. Later, when the tape recorder came back, I only listened to radio and poetry. When I was in elementary school, my father, who was a teacher, enrolled me in a violin class, but not long after, the teacher left and the violin began to gather dust. Musical genius may be born, but if you just study music in general,To have fun and enjoy music, you don’t need special talent, it can be “cultivated”. The best training is \”listening\”. What you use to listen is very important. According to the research results of educators and brain experts, from embryo implantation and birth to two years old, this period is when children receive \”sounds\” (such as language, The best golden period for the influence of music); two to five years old is the second golden period. So the best way to get the best sense of music is to \”listen\” to your children. My parents must be well aware of my musical phobia. Although they never stimulated me, after their son was born, the toys they bought for him were all related to music. They probably wanted their grandson to make up for my phobia. Block shortcomings. So when the baby was only two or three months old, my mother installed a rotating bed bell on her son\’s bed. Later, a classmate sent an early education machine, and we couldn\’t wait to let our children listen. However, friends who know music came to my home and quickly pointed out that the music played had a slight rustling sound and the sound quality was not good. I didn\’t think it had much to do with it, but he insisted on me changing it – the same view as the violinist Marketson Ma whom I met by chance: for a sensitive baby, a big part of music enlightenment is listening, and those who can\’t sing will definitely If you don’t know how to listen, you need to use good playback equipment for your children. Listening to good music cannot be ignored at all. The sound quality and pitch must be good enough. With their strong recommendation, I tried a good speaker from OK. But at the time, I still felt that it was a matter of musicians, and ordinary people didn’t need to be so deliberate. It wasn\’t until OK was almost three years old, and I took him to an early childhood education institution for a music enlightenment class (just passing by, the hospitality was hard to refuse), that I realized that form and atmosphere are important, but good listening effects must not be ignored. In the class that day, the teacher’s control was weak. There were many children, and the sound equipment used in the classroom was not very good. The whole environment was very noisy. Only halfway through the class, OK pulled me and wanted to leave, \”Mom, The music at home sounds good!\” The child\’s feelings are real and direct… You can\’t accompany your child for a lifetime, but music can. I am a friend in the financial circle who I have made for many years and is a winner in the stock market for many years. But he lost almost all his fortune last year and didn\’t dare to disturb him. I bumped into her by chance this year, and she\’s in pretty good shape, and she\’s still very happy. \”In the most difficult times, I relied on music to sustain me!\” What kind of relationship is this? \”When encountering difficulties, people can really only help themselves. At that time, only music could do it. When I was too depressed, I would play the piano for a while.\” When he was young, studying at a music normal college helped him now. Music is the innate ability of human beings to express inner emotions. The influence of ears and eyes can stimulate people\’s inner joy. The foundation of music can fill children\’s lives with happiness. The famous American brain scientist John Medina said that one of the most important characteristics of outstanding children is that they are good at regulating their emotions and can calm themselves down quickly. Long-term exposure to music can be of great help in this regard. . When marketson Ma, a violinist and chief engineer of BenQ Audio, talked to me about his son also learning violin, I smiled and said that \”son inherits his father\’s legacy.\”He repeatedly emphasized that he did not care about this, but he had personal experience that the music education he received as a child would become an accessory when he was rich as an adult and a refuge when he was poor. “We cannot stay with our children forever. But music can.\” I hope we can all give our children a good environment to experience music, so that they can be fortunate enough to have the ability to appreciate music since they are young, and can have a more colorful life through the experience of music and art.

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