In order to motivate the third year of junior high school, we are anxious to use material rewards

The 01 high school entrance examination will be counted for 75 days, and the second mock exam will be taken next Tuesday. After the first model, the teacher asked each child to write a written examination reflection and put forward specific requirements and goals for children at different stages. We also told Lin at home that we should pass the first-size exam, find out the problems and solve them in a targeted manner, refine the total scores that need to be improved to various subjects, and strengthen the practice during review so that we can get the desired score. I missed a lot, but I didn\’t take her to make detailed plans, because I think learning is her own business. Everything my parents should say is that how to do it and how much it does depends on herself. Last week, Lin was like injecting chicken blood, doing homework every night until after twelve o\’clock, and my teammates and I stayed up late every day. This week, I went to school again two days after I was sick, and it seemed that I was a little motivated. After returning home from school on Thursday night, I didn’t write any homework under the encouragement of my teammates and played all night. Yesterday, I went back to the village to visit the grave in the morning. After getting off for lunch at 4:30 in the afternoon, I was doing my homework with my headphones. I seemed to hear her singing. Annoying naughty child said that he was not suitable to listen to songs with headphones when doing homework many times. She still did her own thing and told us that only by listening to songs can you write faster. 02 As a parent of middle school students, it is fake not to be anxious at all. But my anxiety has always been within a controllable range. Looking at Lin, who is a little relaxed this week, my little anxiety has a tendency to grow upward. well! It is not easy to be a parent, and it is even more difficult to be a parent of the third year of junior high school! She should not only urge her to work hard to get into a good high school, but also consider her physical and mental health. After dinner yesterday, I suddenly had an idea: Since Lin likes money (the naughty child mentioned that she likes money many times, although it is a bit material but very real), I will give her what she likes to set up a grade progress award to motivate her to do her best in the last seventy days. This is the first time our family has improved their grades with material rewards. Before Lin entered junior high school, we used the points system. Although the points were finally converted into money, the points at that time were mainly daily performance. This time, in order to improve my grades, I will not miss the key high school after the middle school entrance examination due to a difference of a few points or a dozen points. I decided to use material rewards that should be effective, although not very good. 03After thinking about it, I will discuss it with my teammates first. When my teammate heard this, he raised his hands to agree without saying a word. I wondered if he often brought me back to his material rewards. No matter how much he gave it to you, if he gave it to you secretly before, then we will give it to you openly this time. After reaching an agreement, we went to Lin’s room to find her together. Of course, every time I say that my teammates are only responsible for standing by. Me: The second mock exam will be next week, and my dad and I plan to set a progress award for you. Lin: What is the prize? Me: Award red envelope. Student Lin was so excited that he could see the naked eye and asked: How to reward? Me: In the next exam, we don’t look at the rankings, we only look at the total score, and we will increase the 100 yuan prize. Student Lin immediately asked: What about that is less than ten? Naughty child, there is so much room for improvement, she is still thinking about how much to make, and the minimum standard should be five points. Before I could express my thoughts and requests, my teammate quickly replied: One ten yuan. During the process of raising a baby, there was a pig teammate, \”surprise\”Will be one after another, and all mothers understand it! Student Lin said happily: OK. One point needs to be rewarded. What kind of motivation method is this? There is no way, it is not good for me to take back what my teammates say, so I can only default. The reward description is over, and we will do our own thing. Student Lin continues to do homework with headphones. 04 In the study of children, I do not agree with the use of material rewards. If necessary, occasionally using it may bring unexpected gains. Children in junior high school, come on, the second model, please 💪