It only takes these 9 behaviors to ruin a child, and 99% of parents are doing it

Parents of children, listen up. The following behaviors will have a negative impact on the growth of your children if you are not careful. Please take action quickly. What we need to do is to create a positive and healthy growth environment for our children. NO.1 Interference: When children are already old, parents still take care of everything and participate in directing everything. This is actually depriving children of the opportunity to grow. Children need to try and make mistakes on their own so that they can learn to be independent and take responsibility. If parents always interfere, children will become dependent and lack the ability to solve problems. NO.2 Doting Excessive care is actually doting. Spoiled children, no matter what you do for them, they will take it for granted and don\’t know how to cherish it at all. Can such children really know how to be grateful when they grow up? Can they realize how hard it is for others to pay? The answer is often no. Pampering will cause children to lose their basic understanding of life. They will think that everything should be free and that everything should be done for them. NO.3 It is the instinct of every parent to pamper and love their children. This is true, but this does not mean that they can be pampered as little princesses or little princes. Children who are overly pampered often lack understanding of rules and good upbringing when they grow up. Such children may encounter many setbacks in life when they grow up, and may even lose miserably. Pampering makes children feel that they are special, do not need to follow social rules, and can do whatever they want. NO.4 Satisfy The more you satisfy your children\’s needs, the less they will understand the principle of \”pay and receive\”. For example, if children are given whatever they want, over time, they will take everything for granted and not cherish those hard-won things. Such a mentality will make them dependent and lack independence in their future lives. NO.5 Expectations If you want to have higher expectations for your children, you must first be self-disciplined and study hard. You hold your mobile phone all day long and scroll through short videos, but you hope that your children can work hard. Isn’t this just daydreaming? Such inconsistency will bring invisible pressure to children and may make them lose confidence. Children often imitate the behavior of adults. If parents themselves are not serious, children will naturally not feel that learning is important. We can lead by example and demonstrate a passion for learning and a positive attitude towards life so that children are inspired to pursue their goals. NO.6 Accommodation Some parents either accommodate their children without principles, or blame their children for every little mistake. Both extreme practices are very harmful to children. Excessive accommodation will make children become dependent and lose their independence, while excessive criticism will make children feel inferior and feel that they can never meet their parents\’ expectations. NO.7 Enjoyment If you always give your children whatever they want, and give them the best, I tell you, this will easily breed selfishness and greed in your children. Things in the world cannot be obtained just by wanting them. Everything requires effort and price. In this way, children can learn to cherish and be grateful. NO.8 Blame the child for askingSuccess is definitely not achieved by hitting and blaming you every day. If you always criticize your children and don\’t encourage them, will they not feel inferior? Children need positive feedback and support so they can build confidence and face challenges bravely. NO.9 Nagging Many parents have many problems themselves, but they lecture and accuse hysterically in front of their children all day long. You have to understand that using authority to suppress children will only make them rebel to protect themselves. Your child\’s rebellion is actually your own fault. 99% of parents are doing the above 9 behaviors. You must keep them in your collection and remind yourself to avoid these behaviors at all times. Whenever we feel confused or encounter difficulties, turn it out and give yourself some inspiration and motivation. Educating children is not an easy task, especially when faced with various challenges and pressures. We need to constantly reflect and adjust our methods to ensure that we can provide children with a positive and healthy growth environment.