If you want to raise happy children, parents must stay away from \”spiritual internal friction\”

Many people are familiar with the word \”internal friction\”. Some people say that what is more terrifying than poverty is a parent with a \”spiritual internal friction\” type. Have you ever thought about where our happiness comes from? What is the \”internal friction\” that makes many parents feel unhappy? Professor and doctoral supervisor in the Department of Psychology and Cognitive Science, Tsinghua University, founder of positive psychology in China…

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If you blindly immerse yourself in answering questions, your academic performance will only get worse and worse.

After entering junior high school and high school, the learning method used by most students is to answer questions, and they firmly believe that the more questions they answer, the better. Their unsatisfactory results are caused by the number of questions they answer is not enough. Today I will tell you the opposite answer: if you answer questions blindly, your grades will get worse and worse. Why is this? The answer is very simple: if we just…

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Since I listened to my child, my child has changed a lot and his initiative has improved.

01 On Saturday morning, the second daughter went to the library to finish her homework. The remaining day and a half is free to make your own arrangements. She experienced the ease of completing her homework and said that she would go to the library to do homework on weekend mornings. I have written before that my second daughter is a bad student, and she procrastinates when doing homework. She cannot sit still for 10 minutes. She drinks water, goes to the toilet, and plays with pencils. Such…

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A child with a rich heart is hidden in these 10 details of family life

Last week, my niece Ning Ning celebrated her 8th birthday, and my sister and brother-in-law invited me to attend. A lot of people came to my sister\’s house that day, including some of Ning Ning\’s close classmates. The exquisite cake was served to the table, and everyone gathered around Ning Ning to sing happy birthday and blow out the candles. At that moment, I saw tears glistening in the little guy\’s eyes, and a bright and bright smile on his face. That was…

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Why does current primary education mainly rely on parents?

A public account that only tells the truth, determined to influence 100 million people with one account. The article only represents my personal views and is for reference and discussion. The smallest unit of education is the family. Do you still need to question this? The first thing to cultivate in the lower grades of primary school is good study and living habits, and the ability to take care of oneself. Only when these abilities are developed can children have the basis for independent learning. In elementary school you…

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In elementary school, those who have these four characteristics are the true academic masters. You can see it in the first grade. It is also good to have one.

Click on the card below to follow us. My colleague Sister Li’s daughter has just entered the second grade of junior high school this semester. Recently, she is worried that her child’s academic performance has dropped sharply. She was also very puzzled because her child had always been top-notch since he was in elementary school. By the sixth grade, his total score in the three subjects of language and mathematics had never been lower than 296. In the first grade of junior high school, he was also pretty good, ranking among the top 10 in the class. How did you get into junior high…

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Only when people reach middle age do they fully understand: The best parents in the world are those who maintain the \”three temperatures\”…

What kind of temperature is the most appropriate to get along with your children? If it is too high, it will be difficult for children to accept it, and if it is too low, it will be difficult to produce educational effects. Under normal circumstances, maintaining this temperature can allow children to be well cultivated! [The Impact of 10℃: The Subtle Power of Education] I remember one time, my children and I watched \”Finding Nemo\” together. Nemo\’s bravery and adventure…

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Talk to your children about these 7 types of \”nonsense\” before going to bed. If you persist for half a year, your children will get better and better.

The most effective way to educate is not to talk earnestly, but to chat with your children frequently. Have you ever thought that \”talking nonsense\” with your children is also a kind of educational wisdom. 10 minutes before going to bed, you can talk to your children about these 7 types of nonsense. Don\’t underestimate their role. If you stick to it for the first half of the year, you will find that your children are getting smarter and the parent-child relationship is getting better and better. PART…

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How do the achievement gaps between students widen? It turns out that these are the reasons

In primary school, the performance gap between students is not very obvious, but after entering junior high school, especially high school, the performance gap between different students becomes larger and larger, and eventually some students become the top students we admire. What are the reasons for these gaps? The widening achievement gap is not due to IQ. Many students like to use IQ as a reason. As long as their grades are not satisfactory, they will directly…

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Why can’t we teach all students well even though we try our best?

There was once a saying that governed the education world: \”There are no students who can\’t teach, only teachers who can\’t teach.\” This frightened most ordinary teachers into a daze, and then they used this sentence as the criterion for their work. They always felt that I can teach him well if I work harder. I can memorize it by copying it one more time. I can understand it by answering a few more questions. However, a lot of efforts have been put in but with little results…

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