Senior head teacher: Whether a child can pass 985 or 211 can be seen in primary school. It mainly depends on these five points.

Today, I want to talk to you about a topic that many parents are concerned about – their children\’s future academic achievements, especially whether they can be admitted to key universities such as 985 or 211. As a senior class teacher, I have discovered through many years of teaching practice that some clues about a child’s future academic direction can actually be seen in primary school. This does not mean that good grades in primary school will guarantee admission to a good university, but some key habits and traits do begin to appear in primary school. I remember that I taught a student, Xiao Ming, who showed a unique learning attitude and habits since the first grade of elementary school. He loves reading and will pick up a book and immerse himself in the ocean of knowledge every day after school; he is methodical in doing things, his schoolbag is always neat and tidy, and his homework is never delayed; he is also very curious and always encounters problems that he does not understand. It’s about getting to the bottom of things. Today, Xiao Ming has successfully been admitted to a prestigious 985 school and has become the pride of our school. When looking back on his growth process, I couldn\’t help feeling that whether a child can get into a good university, these five points in elementary school are really important. 1. Good study habits Primary school is a critical period for cultivating children\’s study habits. Whether children can develop habits such as completing homework on time, reviewing independently, and previewing new lessons is directly related to their future academic performance. The power of habits is huge. Once formed, they will guide children\’s behavior like an automatic program. I have seen too many children who could barely cope with their studies in elementary school, but in middle school and high school, as subject knowledge increases and difficulty increases, without good study habits, their grades plummet. And those children who have developed good study habits since childhood can learn with ease and make continuous progress. Suggestion: Parents can start with small things, such as stipulating that children complete their homework before playing after school every day; prepare a study schedule for their children to help them plan their daily learning tasks. Regularly check children\’s learning progress and homework completion, and provide timely feedback and encouragement. 2. Strong interest in reading Reading is the key to opening the door to knowledge. If children can develop good reading habits in primary school, it will be of great benefit to their future development. Reading can not only broaden children\’s knowledge, but also cultivate their thinking and expression skills. Many outstanding students I have taught have one thing in common, that is, they love reading. They not only read textbooks, but also read a variety of extracurricular books, ranging from literary classics to popular science books. This kind of reading habit makes their thinking more active and their horizons broader. Suggestion: Parents can buy some age-appropriate books for their children and place them in a conspicuous place at home to encourage their children to read more; they can also read with their children, share reading experiences, and enhance parent-child relationships. 3. Positive learning attitude Learning attitude determines children’s learning results. In primary school, if children can maintain a positive learning attitude and be curious and enthusiastic about new knowledge, they will be more proactive and confident in future learning. Some children have mediocre grades in primary school, but they are passionate about learning, never give up when encountering problems, and always find ways to solve them. Such children, even if their grades are not good temporarily, will be poor in the future.There is great potential for development. Suggestion: Parents should pay attention to their children\’s learning attitude and give more positive recognition and encouragement; when their children encounter difficulties, they should guide them to face them positively and find solutions to the problems. You can also set learning goals with your children to stimulate their motivation for learning. 4. Good self-control Self-control is an important guarantee for children’s future success. In primary school, if children can learn to control their emotions and behaviors and not be affected by external interference, they will be more focused and determined in their future study and life. Some children have shown strong self-control since elementary school. They do things in an orderly manner and are not easily swayed by external temptations. Such children will often achieve better results in future study and work. Suggestion: Parents can cultivate their children\’s self-control through small daily things, such as setting the time for their children to watch TV or play games every day; set rules with their children so that they can learn to abide by them. Children can also be encouraged to participate in activities that require self-control, such as chess competitions, painting, etc. 5. Excellent social skills Social skills are an important support for children’s future development. In primary school, if children can learn to get along with others, communicate and cooperate, they will be more successful in future study and work. Some children have shown strong social skills in elementary school. They are good at communicating with others and can integrate well into the group. Such children will often receive more opportunities and support in their future studies and work. Suggestion: Parents can take their children to participate in more group activities so that they can learn to get along with others; they can also encourage their children to participate in more social activities, such as summer camps, interest classes, etc. When children have conflicts with others, they should be guided to learn to think from others\’ perspective and understand others. Dear parents, your children’s future academic achievements are not achieved overnight. It requires laying a solid foundation in primary school to develop good study habits, reading interest, learning attitude, self-control and social skills. These habits and traits are like beacons on the path of children\’s growth, guiding them to move forward. Of course, every child is a unique individual and grows up in a different way. But as long as we discover, guide and accompany them with our hearts, we believe that every child can thrive under the care of love and become the protagonist of his or her own life. Let us work together to support our children\’s future!