Nowadays, many children have to go through interviews to advance from kindergarten to primary school, and the competition for educational resources is becoming increasingly fierce. The story of \”Starting Line\” is performed every day. Even Andy Yang, the son of Yang Zi, the president of Juli Group, still has to face the strict kindergarten requirements. Interview for promotion to junior high school. Not long ago, in the program \”Mom is Superman 3\”, the director team showed us a typical interview process for children to be promoted to primary school. The interview subject was the child Andy Yang. Interview questions from kindergarten to primary school There are three English entrance interview teachers from kindergarten to primary school. First, a long-haired female teacher will test Andy\’s English level. She will ask questions in English throughout the process, allowing Andy to answer some questions such as what color he likes or what he likes. Simple questions about animals. For a preschooler, this level of English is enough to show how much effort the family has put into his preschool education. Mathematics Don’t think that the mathematics test from kindergarten to primary school will be simple questions such as 1 + 2 is equal to several. The scope of the questions has long been expanded to the concept of negative numbers, and will also involve the observation and understanding of some common sense in life. Fortunately, Andy still completed the test excellently, which made Huang Shengyi outside the door feel a little relieved. The third storytelling test is the storytelling test, which tests the children\’s language organization ability and imagination. This item seems to be Andy\’s weakness. He stumbled to the end of the story in a slightly unconfident voice, and his mother also I sweated a lot for him. The last test of the emotional test was an emotional test for children. The interview teacher asked Andy what was the happiest thing that had ever happened to him at home or in kindergarten. Andy, who always answered fluently, remained silent, even after the teacher guided him several times. Still can\’t think of any answers. Afterwards, the interview teacher found Huang Shengyi and told her about Andy\’s performance during the interview. They believed that although the child performed well in other aspects, there were deficiencies in emotional expression. They suggested that Huang Shengyi spend more time with the child, communicate with the child more and guide him. They express themselves and release their nature. After watching Andy\’s entire interview process, the editor couldn\’t help but lament how difficult it is to interview from a junior high school to a primary school. However, interviews of this level of difficulty are by no means an isolated case. There are many primary schools whose entrance tests are more difficult than those in the show. The picture above shows the entrance test of Shaw Primary School in previous years. Obviously, this type of test tests children\’s teamwork ability. But no matter what the ability test is, children can be trained in advance. As a result, more and more children have learned English, piano and math Olympiad since childhood, and the screening conditions of schools are becoming more and more strict. Not long ago, a primary school in Wuxi issued a notice on its official website, reminding parents to bring their original academic certificates when registering their children. This practice aroused heated discussions among netizens. They all said that heroes do not ask where they come from. Nowadays, it is not only necessary to ask about family background. There are even elementary schools that want to \”find their roots and ask about their ancestors\” and find out the first degree of the children\’s grandfathers. It no longer looks like an entrance test, but more like a genetic competition. Under the pressure of such cruel and fierce competition for higher education, we have seen more and more parents, like the Indian movie \”Starting Line\”, working hard for their children to enter a prestigious school. Although they move everyone, they may not move their children. Many parents seem to have forgotten a very simple question, childrenZi is not just a machine for achieving success, he is also an ordinary child who can be happy, fearful and anxious. Nowadays, more and more schools are beginning to pay attention to the mental health of students, and emotional testing has become an indispensable part of the admission interviews in many schools. For example, Andy answered the teacher\’s question with silence, but it does not mean that there are no happy things in his life. Maybe he did not expect it, maybe he was unwilling to reveal his heart in front of the camera and strangers. In terms of emotional expression, Andy does lack some corresponding abilities. So, what impact will insufficient emotional expression ability have on children? The impact of insufficient emotional expression ability: Emotional expression ability is crucial to the formation and stability of interpersonal relationships. People who lack emotional expression ability often give people a feeling of indifference and indifference, but this is not the case. In addition, the lack of emotional expression will cause children to find psychological compensation in other ways, and the specific manifestations vary from person to person. However, many parents still only focus on improving their children\’s learning level and talents and skills, and \”muddle along\” with their emotional abilities. As everyone knows, both the ability to love and the ability to express love need to be learned. If you miss the childhood and adolescence when the emotional pattern gradually takes shape, it will be difficult to correct it in the future. How to develop the ability to express emotions. As suggested by the examiner, parents spending more time with their children and communicating more with them are important means to improve their children\’s ability to express emotions. Parents can refer to the following points. Find out the reasons and prescribe the right medicine. Children\’s lack of emotional ability usually has corresponding reasons. Parents need to fully communicate with their children, understand the reasons why their children are unwilling to express emotions, and then \”prescribe the right medicine\” for the reasons. If parents do not spend enough time with each other, they should spend more time in parent-child interactions in the future. If parents have the bad habit of denying their children\’s emotions, in fact, this situation is very common. Many parents do not allow their children to cry in front of them, and do not like their children to be overly excited. These emotional denials will make children learn to suppress their emotions. . Parents should learn to respect their children\’s emotions and can provide guidance, but never adopt a completely negative attitude. Encourage children to express themselves. Parents can guide children to express their emotions in a purposeful way, such as often asking children \”How was your day?\”, \”Do you like the new hat your mother bought you?\”, \”Which child do you prefer to play with?\” , if the child does not know how to express it, parents can give a demonstration first, such as \”I like today\’s story very much\”, \”Today\’s movie is very good\”, etc. Over time, children will no longer be afraid or ashamed of expressing their emotions. Encourage children to interact more with others. Children who frequently interact with others may not necessarily have particularly strong emotional expression abilities, but they are most likely to be better than children who like to stay alone. Parents should encourage their children to interact and socialize with others, but do not force them. The best way is to take them to places related to their interests to make friends. Children will continue to learn how to get along with others through social interaction, and they will increasingly understand how to express emotions and where to express them. Finally, hopeI hope that all parents will regard their children\’s emotional expression as an important and worthy of consideration. When others ask their children what makes them happiest, I hope that every child can have his or her own happiest answer. Parent Hall warmly reminds parents that in the process of guiding their children to express or communicate with their children, never label their children based on their words, behavior or tendency. For example, don’t think that a child’s failure to express his feelings after reading a book means that he has “poor understanding” and “doesn’t like to read.” Don’t think that a child’s failure to say “I’m very happy today” after an outdoor activity means that he or she is “very happy today.” \”Homebody\” type… Children are growing and changing every day. Labeling them arbitrarily will not only restrict their growth, but also easily weaken their desire for expression.
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