Someone summarized the five sentences that cause children to fail to learn: There is a mobile phone in the hand, there is a funny person in the heart, there is a treasure in the classroom, the IQ is not in the service area, and there is a tractor outside the window. This summary may seem like a joke, but in fact The words are rough but the reasoning is not rough, and it is a good summary of several learning states of children. In such a state, children have poor concentration and concentration, and naturally cannot learn. There are too many sources of interference. Today\’s children often keep their mobile phones in their hands, including celebrity gossip, animation information, Taobao games… They are no better than their parents when it comes to playing with mobile phones. Xiaofei previously wrote an article \”It\’s been hurting your children, but you never noticed…\”, which talked about the adverse effects of electronic products such as mobile phones on children\’s growth. For children whose minds are still developing and whose judgment and discrimination abilities have not yet taken shape, mobile phones and the Internet are more like a Pandora\’s box. After opening it, faced with various temptations, it is easy to shift their attention and interest in learning to other \”lesser\” things. Go up to the things that take a lot of time. There are too many sources of interference, and it feels like there is a little joke living in my heart. I am led around by some jokes and clever things all day long, and it is difficult to calm down to read a book and think about problems. The influence of class atmosphere \”There is a living treasure in the classroom\” does not refer to a certain person, but to say that children are easily influenced by their peers. In addition to being at home, children spend the longest time in school, spending time with their peers day and night, and are inevitably influenced by them. If the learning atmosphere of the entire class is not good, children will also be susceptible to infection. Once a child develops a dismissive and casual attitude towards learning, it will be difficult for children to focus on specific learning. Even if they have talent and potential, if they are not tuned in the right direction, naturally their \”IQ is not in the service area\”…Family The Influence of the Environment When returning from school to home, whether learning is important or interesting has a lot to do with the learning atmosphere created by the home environment. Some families do not pay attention to this aspect. When their children come home, \”there is a tractor by the window\”, they are faced with a noisy and cluttered environment, with noisy programs on the TV screen, the sound of parents playing mahjong, and the noise of decoration all around… How can children learn in such an environment? \”Disciple Regulations\” says, \”The room is clean, the walls are clean; the desks are clean, the pens and inkstones are straight.\” This emphasizes the importance of a good learning environment. If you do not pay attention to these details, children will easily be distracted by messy gadgets and affect their concentration on learning. We have said before that the existence of any problem cannot be developed overnight. Three feet of ice does not freeze in one day. The three points summarized above are the main reasons that affect children\’s learning status and lead to children\’s failure to learn. Although parents cannot control the influence of class learning atmosphere and peers in school, they can still reduce the bad influence little by little by communicating with teachers and children. For parents, a more practical approach is to properly eliminate various factors that interfere with their children, create a good home learning environment, and let children feel their parents\’ enthusiasm for learning. It is said that parents are their children\’s best teachers, and interests are the best teachers. Can parents make their children feel relaxed and happy when studying at home?The key to solving this problem is the inability to cultivate children\’s enthusiasm for learning and the ability to create an environment conducive to learning.
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