What is the purpose of traveling with children?

Speaking of the word travel, I think of a classic old song \”I want to go to Guilin\”. I want to go to Guilin. I want to go to Guilin, but when I have time, I don\’t have the money. I want to go to Guilin. I want to go to Guilin, but I have. When I have money, I don’t have time… Life is so helpless sometimes. I am also a helpless person, and I know this feeling very well. Some time ago, when I was at my aunt\’s house, I saw my little cousin posted a learning target on the wall of the room. At the end, it says that if you achieve your goal, you will go to Hainan. I am very envious in my heart. At that time, I also wrote many plans on the wall to encourage myself. But the reward for yourself is to buy a basketball or other items. The most fortunate thing about today\’s children is that they have more opportunities to travel all over the country, and even travel abroad. I always encourage anyone who wants to travel, just go and have fun. I remember when I was an editor, a group of college kids did proofreading for me. One girl told me that she just wanted to save some money for a graduation trip and didn’t want to have to deal with her parents. I think this girl’s idea is quite good and I assigned her more work because it can help her realize her dream. Sometimes I even feel like it’s helping me realize my dream because I haven’t been able to travel much myself. I can only travel in my imagination and walk in books. After all, the two are different. So deep down I really envy people who can travel. I envy those who can have a show and leave at the drop of a hat. A few days ago, I saw a friend in WeChat Moments saying, \”If my royalties this month exceed 5,000, I\’ll go on a trip of my choice.\” It\’s a very tempting plan. I really hope she can make it. In fact, the cost of traveling is not high, but we always stop because of some constraints. After having children, I discovered a good opportunity. I travel with my son, so over the past few years I’ve been looking forward to him growing up. Sometimes I play a train driving game with him, and I take him to recite the names of places, and then tell him what fun things there are in each place. At a young age, he was full of expectations for the outside world. I told him, \”Before you go to kindergarten, your dad will take you out to play once. Where do you want to go?\” He said let\’s go to Shanghai. Okay, let\’s go to Shanghai. I went to Shanghai because I often told him that it was a big city, very big. There is also Disneyland, which is fun. A four or five year old would love these play areas. And keep the cool breeze and bright moon in the mountains for now, we will come. When you have a child, you can\’t stop in the courtyard. Read thousands of books and travel thousands of miles. This is a big dream, so make a small plan for yourself first. Take your children to several places every year, such as one place each in spring, summer, autumn and winter. Choose a place to travel together based on your child\’s age and interests. Children who have seen the outside world and walked with their parents since childhood. I will no longer rebel and demand to be a lonely backpacker. On the contrary, you will understand that your parents are here and will not travel far away. When I pursue poetry and distant places, I will also remember the hardships of my parents. So travel with children as early as possible! When traveling with children, I would like to share a few tips: 1. Be sure to pay attention to safety, not only in the places where you visit but also in the arrangements, be careful and follow the arrangements. And in many details it is moreDon\’t be careless. For example, when you stay in a hotel, the bathroom is usually different from the one at home. Children are especially prone to slipping, so be careful. Yesterday, my son walked away by himself, and I fell down as soon as I turned around. Fortunately, it was not serious, and it scared me. One jump. The old people often say \”Be careful when traveling in the world\”, which is a truth. 2. For babies that are too young, I really don’t recommend going to crowded tourist attractions or traveling far away. Once I saw a mother watching the fireworks with her several-month-old child at an attraction. The child didn\’t watch at all, but was surrounded by the crowd and cried. This is also the reason why I waited until my son was 4 years old before taking him out. I really wanted to take him with me when I went out before, but considering that environmental changes pose a challenge to children, there is also the fact that the little guy’s resistance and physical endurance are limited. Start gradually when you are older. 3. When traveling with your children, don’t be tethered to your mobile phone anymore. Many parents take their children out to play, and while they are waiting in line or taking a break, they check their mobile phones, open games or chat interfaces, and leave their children alone. Sometimes their children are naughty and conflict with their friends, or hinder other people. really not good. People who don’t understand children will scold them for being ignorant, while people who know will say that their parents didn’t teach them well. 4. Please set a good example in front of your children. If you feel that someone has made you unhappy or you feel that you have been short-changed, please pay attention to how you handle it in front of your children. The day before yesterday, I encountered two people arguing in the queue. It turned out that the person at the back was saying that the person in front was cutting in line. The person in front said that he had taken a seat very early and went to the toilet. So the two people started to quarrel. Fortunately, the service personnel arrived in time and both parties put away their anger. At that time, the two children were just watching in confusion. One child was still clutching her mother\’s clothes and kept shouting, hoping that her mother would divert her attention. Sometimes, please be considerate when communicating with staff. They are also human beings and need to be understood and respected. Help yourself if you can help yourself, and follow the rules if you are unclear. A person\’s cultivation and quality are sometimes reflected in a phone call, a few conversations, and an attitude. Life is actually a journey. We were a child and then we became parents. And this journey is a spiritual practice. On the way back to the hotel from the scenic spot last night, I heard a father say to his child in his arms as he walked: \”Mom and dad will always love you, so mom and dad want to stay with you all the time, just like today. But sometimes dad is not here There may be fewer people around you in the future. But Dad loves you and will always love you.\” What is the purpose of traveling with children? In fact, it is just one word – \”love\”