I was chatting with a parent two days ago, and he lamented that when his children came home from school, it was already dark, and they had to finish their meal in a hurry to write their mother\’s homework, leaving little time to read. This seems to be a headache for almost all parents of primary school students. Where do their children go at night? After constant exploration and adjustment, I would like to share how my family frees up a lot of time for reading. To sum up, it is very simple. It does nothing more than do the following three things. The first thing: Before the after-school service, the parent felt that the main problem with time constraints was that the children got out of school too late. Taking our place as an example, after-school services are available until 5:30, and we usually arrive home at around 6:00. We have a meal and a rest, and we arrive at 7:00 without doing anything. After completing school homework or mother\’s homework, practice oral arithmetic and write new words, and take a break in between. If the child wanders off again, the parent will nag a few words or ask another question, and the time will pass before you know it. Then the only thing that is compressed in the end is reading, because it does not require writing, and in the children\’s minds, it is not considered homework. Therefore, we must first pay attention to it and also strengthen it for children. Reading is something that must be done every day! Even if you only read for a few minutes, you must do it. We didn’t delay after class. We got out of school before 4 o’clock. Look at the end time, it’s only an hour and a half later! When I come back from school, I go downstairs to have some fun. After I come back and take a short rest, I can complete oral arithmetic and calligraphy exercises that children can complete independently before dinner. At this time, students who participated in the after-school extension may not have finished school yet! So I sincerely recommend that children in first grade not participate in after-school services. Originally, time was set aside for children to do homework, but there was no homework in the first grade. Even if the mother\’s homework was brought to school, unless the child was super capable, he would not be able to complete it independently. You said let him read a book? How many children in first grade can learn to read independently? There is a high probability that the after-school service time will be wasted. It\’s better for the elderly to play outside with their children! The second thing: complete the homework efficiently without taking up reading time. If you want to complete your homework efficiently, you must first not do too much. Who wouldn’t be upset if you asked your children to do two sets of papers every day? It’s subjectively contradictory. Secondly, the questions should not be too difficult. If the questions are too difficult, the child will not be able to do it, which will also cause him to procrastinate. For example, my family arranges an experimental class. The amount of questions is a bit large for a first grader, and the questions themselves are difficult, so there are trade-offs. For example, if the previous basic part overlaps with the school questions, then you can ignore it and go directly to the latter part. thinking questions. If your child still doesn\’t understand the thinking questions after several times, there is no need to get angry and waste time endlessly explaining the questions. Maybe they are not developed enough, or we didn\’t understand them clearly. After all, they are only in the first grade, and it is normal to be slower in understanding. , maybe he will suddenly figure it out after a while. In addition, here are a few tips to improve efficiency. 1. The learning environment should be quiet, the desktop should be clear, and no unnecessary external stimulation should be given to him. 2. If your child is in a daze occasionally, makes some small movements, or chats with you, you should ignore him and continue to be immersed in your things. This is also telling him to concentrate on studying. If you find that he is very distracted, you can knock on the table to give an appropriate reminder. 3. Make a study plan and implement rewards and punishmentssystem. Appropriate rewards are essential. When a child realizes his small wish through his own efforts, he will become more and more willing to complete it. The third thing: Reading in various forms does not necessarily require parents and children to sit together and hold a book to be called reading. We can listen to audio before bed, or have a show. My \”little theater\” opens occasionally. Sometimes the child tells the story by himself on the stage, and sometimes I perform with him. For children, this is play, but isn’t it another kind of reading? Written at the end: If you don’t accumulate small steps, you can’t reach a thousand miles. If you don\’t accumulate small streams, you can\’t reach the rivers and seas. Even if it\’s just 5 minutes of reading a day, as long as you stick to it, small changes can bring huge results.
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