Wrestle, dad tells you: there is only one word between children and success

My daughter, Xiaozhu Xuan, came out crying, and I swore I didn’t beat her. Can you guess the reason? Yes, we just finished watching \”Dangal, Dad\” and walked out of the cinema together. 1. I know it, but I don’t want to get up the next day. Xiaozhu Xuan continued the topic from last night without wanting to finish it. \”This is the best movie I have ever seen!\” \”I think it is worth the ten years of hard work for these two sisters. It has changed their life\’s destiny.\” \”They are very lucky to have met such a father.\” This kind of understanding can be regarded as something a child can teach. I hurriedly tried to help her while the iron was hot, \”I will be like this father and I will be strict with you from now on, okay?\” Xiaozhu Xuan, who was still eloquent just now, immediately stopped talking. She waved her hands and shouted: \”No, no!\” \”Why?\” I asked. \”It\’s too hard!\” she replied without thinking. You see, it’s not that the children don’t know what to do, they just don’t want to do it! 2. From Passive to Active The father in the video said something that is universally applicable. \”Gold medals don\’t grow on trees, waiting for you to pick them, but they need to be watered with love, hard work and dedication.\” The word \”gold medal\” in this sentence is replaced by \”success\”, \”achieve good results\”, The keywords \”getting into a prestigious school\” are also applicable. Most children understand the meaning of success and desire it. What they desire more is that success grows on trees, not too high, and they can easily pick it by stretching out their hands. Humans are animals that seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, and naturally choose things that are easier and easier to do. Hard work, hard work, and struggle are all about fighting against oneself and overcoming the weaknesses in nature, which is of course not easy! Therefore, the difference between most children and success is actually only one word, and that is \”lazy\”! The Gita sisters in the movie also want to be lazy. In the early stages of training, they see their father as a dictator, and they are forced to train as if they are being punished. As a result, they began to fight against their father, secretly adjusting his alarm clock in order to get up late; breaking the lights in the wrestling ring again and again in order to skip training; and even stopped training without authorization to attend a neighbor\’s wedding. At that time, the sisters were only teenagers, so these reactions were considered normal, and they needed guidance from their parents. Later, they understood the harsh reality and understood that everything their father did was for their future. From then on, they began to train consciously and completed the transformation from passive to active. They know that they can only change their destiny by themselves. After little Gita failed in her first wrestling match, she asked her father: \”When is the next match going to start?\” It can be seen that she had fallen in love with wrestling by this time. 3. The four girls who played the roles of teenagers, young men Geeta and Babita in the movie spent nine months practicing for one minute of shooting. Their wrestling moves were very professional. So much so that Miss Xuan insisted on making a bet with me that they were real professional wrestlers. In fact, they were all novices in wrestling, and they only reached this level after nine months of devilish training by the Indian National Wrestling Team. Every day I run, exercise my leg muscles, lift barbells, roll back and forth, jump, and fall… When I first started training, my whole body hurt. But the four girls didn\’t dare to say anything, for fear that if they screamed in pain, the crew would say they were not suitable for the role and would be fired. They said:\”Every night when I lie in bed, I wish I could die like this. It\’s so painful!\” Even Da Geeta didn\’t dare to say that she had a broken foot until the crew discovered it. Since then, she has continued to film despite her injuries. The most admirable thing is the actress of Young Babita. Her wrestling scene in the film was less than 1 minute, but she trained with everyone for 9 months. I struggled every day, enduring bruises and pain all over my body, just for a few fleeting shots. She had no questions, no complaints. The film was successful, and its success was no accident. Peeling off the veil of success, what we see is full of tears and sweat! 4. If you want your children to succeed, first of all, parents must not be lazy. Obama said something in a speech. I lived in Indonesia for several years, and my mother didn\’t have the money to send me to the schools other American kids went to, but she felt I had to get an American education. Therefore, she decided to give me extra classes herself from Monday to Friday. But she still has to go to work, so she can only teach me at 4:30 in the morning. As you can imagine, I was reluctant to get up so early. Many times, I fell asleep lying on the dining table. But every time I complained, my mother would look at me like that and say, \”Boy, this isn\’t easy for me either.\” From movies to behind the scenes, from Gita to Obama, we have seen a truth, \”Lazy ” is the biggest factor preventing us from succeeding. In order for children to overcome the problem of \”laziness\”, first of all, parents must not be lazy. Obama\’s mother gets up at 4:30 to teach her son English and has to go to work during the day. She said, \”This is not easy for me either.\” However, she persisted. As a result, her son also persisted, and Obama, who learned to persist, later became the President of the United States. In the film, Sister Geeta gets up at 5 o\’clock every day to start high-intensity training. Their father is always with them and gets up at 5 o\’clock to coach. Dad has to go to work during the day and has to bear the heavy responsibility of supporting the family, which makes it even more difficult for him. If your children want to be successful, they must not be lazy! If you want your children not to be lazy, first of all, parents themselves must not be lazy!