Li Meijin: What really widens the gap between children is not IQ, but these 4 habits

In this era of competition, every parent hopes that their children will take the lead in the future. Psychologist Professor Li Meijin once profoundly pointed out: \”What really widens the gap between children is not IQ, but those seemingly inconspicuous habits.\” These words ring in the hearts of every parent like morning bells and evening drums. Today, let us delve into these four factors that shape children\’s future…

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It\’s normal to lose your temper with your children, but please don\’t say \”I don\’t love you\” in every sentence

I took Su Bao to the Children\’s Museum on the weekend. When I was tired from walking, I sat down to rest. Not far away, a two- or three-year-old child suddenly started crying. The mother first picked her up and comforted her. The child started to cry while kicking his legs, and eventually he rolled all over the floor. The mother of the child got mad and yelled at the child: Why are you like this! I will never bring you here again! After being scolded by the mother, the child cried so hard that he couldn\’t breathe…

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3 tips to teach you how to spend quality time with your children [Written for dads who have little time, attached with book list]

Many fathers are troubled: I know it is important for fathers to spend time with their children, but unfortunately I am too busy at work and exhausted when I get home. I lose my patience after playing with my children for a while, and my children are becoming less and less close to me. What can I do? My husband once had the same problem. Before Rooney was 2 years old, he was not very busy at work and often helped take care of the children when he came home. Rooney and he were still very close at that time. …

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Let your children fall in love with vegetables, this little method is super effective

X showed off his second baby in the circle of friends. There was a one-piece food box in front of him with various vegetables in it. Because the baby had just had two teeth, I asked her out of curiosity: Why did she eat lump-shaped vegetables just after her teeth came in? The friend laughed and said: This is called \”Tiny Tastees\” time. I laughed at her for giving her child such a foreign name even though she had nothing to eat. X helplessly…

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The more obedient a child is, the more miserable he will be when he grows up! Countless parents fell silent after watching this

Chen Xiao’s wife, Lily, holds a master’s degree in the financial industry. Chen Xiao came to Beijing from his hometown to attend Lily’s graduation dinner as a family member. Most of Lily\’s classmates who are part-time graduate students have been employed for many years. Some have established their own companies, some have become managers, some have entered colleges and universities to engage in teaching work, and some have become national…

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Is the eldest child more likely to be the winner in life than the second child? Does birth order really determine a child\’s personality?

In the blink of an eye, the pregnancy has entered the last three months, and the time of pregnancy for the second child has passed so fast. Recently, I have been taking the time to study how to maintain a balanced development of the two babies after the second child is born. Before I was pregnant with my second child, I often heard sayings such as \”the second child is smarter than the eldest child\” and \”the eldest child is more confident and stable than the second child\”. As a serious academic mother of two, I would like to know if these conclusions are valid…

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Mom is also a mother for the first time. Please don’t blame her.

On the eve of Mother’s Day, a mother posted a message on WeChat Moments, which moved me very much. \”Dear baby, I lost my temper at you again. I later realized that my mother had misunderstood you. I\’m really sorry, but you couldn\’t understand my apology. I know that even if you could understand, you would forgive me quickly. Mom\’s. I\’m really sorry. Mom is also a mother for the first time…

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Should you accompany your children to do their homework? How to accompany? The result is so different!

After dinner yesterday, I took Ruirui to my cousin\’s house to play. As soon as I entered the house, before I saw my cousin, I heard my cousin yelling at the top of her lungs: \”I\’ve told you so many times, don\’t look around when doing homework. Look at what you wrote in cursive script.\” Really? Look carefully, is that what it says?\” My cousin-in-law saw that I was stunned and quickly explained: \”Your cousin…

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\”Just study and don\’t worry about anything else.\” How many children have been harmed by this sentence!

When we train our children, we are preparing them to enter society in the future. Children who can only study will find it difficult to thrive in society. Letting children take more responsibilities, be more independent, and know how to love and give is the best we can give our children. like. \”Just study and don\’t worry about anything else.\” When I was a child, I was very envious of my neighbor\’s children. Even though they both had similar grades, she finished writing…

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As a parent, how long will you go on the road of \”working without a certificate\”?

At first, I thought that all mothers were gifted and would become masters of love without any practice. After many twists and turns, I finally understood that in the exercise book of time, even if every page is painted with the shading of heart to heart, we still need to practice thousands of times before we can catch a glimpse of the truth of love. ——Liu Jirong Before giving birth to a baby, I had never read any parenting books, like what the writer Liu Jirong said…

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