Mo Yan said that the excellence of children is soaked in the sweat of their parents. Life is a process of conquering demons and cultivating righteousness all the way, and parents are the living bodhisattvas of their children, who can help them open roads in the mountains, build bridges in the water, and achieve a career. Yes, nothing comes out of nowhere. Behind every outstanding child is the hard work of his parents. Have you ever seen the kitchen at 4:30 in the morning…
Category: Preschool period
Preschool period
I’ve been a parent for a month since the new year, and I’m lying flat on my back—accompanying my baby to junior high school, Part 11
Every parent wants their children to be at the top of their class. Especially junior high school parents, especially junior high school parents who have always been chickens, their children have been working hard during the elementary school stage and during the summer vacation from elementary school to junior high school. It is said that it is just to make their children have a smoother path in junior high school and less pressure to study, but who doesn\’t want their children to be able to In the weekly exams, monthly exams, mid-term exams, and final exams, if gods stand in the way, kill gods, and if Buddha stands in the way, kill Buddha…
Big data tells: if parents do this every day, their children’s academic performance will be better
\”People\’s Education\” once published an article introducing the 2019 Suzhou compulsory education academic quality monitoring, using the evaluation data of 270,816 junior high school students as an analysis sample, and analyzing the factors affecting children\’s growth from several aspects. Among them, the first One important factor is that students who eat breakfast cooked by their family every day do better academically. Test results show: Every week…
The best way to get along with adolescent children: chatting with them is the key to opening the door to the heart
I wrote about the various conflicts I had with my children in September. I confiscated my cell phone a few days ago, and we had a few quarrels. It seemed like it was damaging our relationship, but it actually removed the culprit that was hindering our relationship. Not only has my relationship with my children not been damaged, it has become closer. My children will chat with me when they are fine. Today we talked for two hours and debated among ourselves. During the debate, I became more…
Don\’t blindly make up lessons. Cultivating these three abilities in primary school will make it even harder to get bad grades. It\’s a hundred times better than making up lessons.
For the sake of their children\’s academic progress, parents spend a lot of money, even to the point of embarrassment themselves. They are reluctant to buy beautiful clothes and jewelry, but they do not hesitate to enroll their children in cram schools. Most of our families are ordinary families, so we have to pursue the highest cost performance. My family has not attended any cram school since the first grade. Even if I take English classes in the first grade, when my child cries and says he doesn’t understand, I first…
How to \”keep an eye on\” children correctly? There must be scale and temperature
For some parents, they can only feel at ease by \”watching\” their children completing tasks all day long. This kind of behavior that seems to be \”for the good of the child\” and \”for the purpose of cultivating the child\” may achieve good results in the short term, but it is not conducive to the long-term development of the child. In fact, the purpose of \”staring\” is not to make children \”obey\” their parents\’ demands, but to train…
Key middle school teacher: The difference between top achievers and average students is not at all in IQ level, but in these three points, top achievers perform too well!
A teacher from a key middle school made a comparison between top students and average students. He said that the difference between a top student and an average student is never about IQ level, but the following three points. Point 1: The level of willpower. Willpower plays a very important role in the learning process. When a child is working on a difficult problem and still can\’t solve it after thinking hard, at this time, the child\’s…
What parents and children need to know: There is a huge difference between positive emotions and negative emotions, and life is completely different
The day before yesterday, I wrote that I confiscated my daughter’s mobile phone, quarreled with the child, and refused to make a fuss. She was very sad and made a fuss for two days. Last night, my eldest daughter told me that they were taking psychology classes during the day and the teacher asked them to understand emotions. The teacher said that when encountering problems, positive emotions and negative emotions have completely different effects. Regarding the mobile phone issue, my daughter said that she has positive emotions now and does not have a mobile phone…
If you have a child with a bad temper, be sure to understand these 4 effects and do not confront the child head-on.
A mother asked for help on Zhihu: My child\’s temper has become particularly bad now and he will smash things when he is unhappy. How should I educate him? She said that one time during lunch, she asked her child to turn off the TV, but the child refused and hit her hard with the remote control. At that time, the child\’s father said a few words to him, and he started crying. The father was forced to slap him hard in the face. But even so…
Why should we travel with kids? This is the best answer I’ve ever heard
During the \”National Day\” holiday, many parents take their children to travel. Traveling can enrich the children\’s horizons and increase their knowledge… But the purpose of travel is not to take the children to watch the flowers and blindly follow the trend. What can traveling bring to the children? Parents traveling with their children What\’s the point…