The child said to me: Mom, please stop encouraging me.

Encouraging our kids is getting harder and harder in our family. I often encourage them habitually and subconsciously regard girls and wine as little children who still need a lot of encouragement, but the feedback from the children is: they don’t need my (frequent) encouragement. For example, in my opinion, Jiujiu is a little boy who is rich in emotions, has high emotional value needs, and loves to cling to his mother. But when he\’s good at…

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When a child bumps into a child in kindergarten and is bullied by other children! How would you handle it?

When a child bumps into someone in kindergarten, is bullied by a child, or doesn’t want to go to kindergarten… how will you deal with it? Have you ever thought about the impact it will have on your children? Let’s look at a story first: Two salesmen from a company went to a backward area to inspect the market. The first person to go shook his head and sighed after seeing it, and replied to the company: Everyone here is barefoot, so…

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Is dad more anxious than mom? This psychologist\’s 30 years of research has shown us how difficult it is to be a father…

In the traditional impression, compared to women, men tend to have more \”anti-anxiety\” physiques. However, this year’s newly released “Family Education Blue Book (2024): Report on China’s Family Raising Environment” provides an interesting finding. This mental health data based on nearly one million families shows that when it comes to education issues, fathers are more anxious than mothers…

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The way you deal with your child\’s \”bad moods\” determines his personality when he grows up

\”It\’s just a child, what\’s the trouble?\” There is a short story in \”Children\’s Emotional Psychology\”. In order to take a set of shocking photos, the photographer came to the orphanage with many lollipops. He asked the teacher to prepare hot water and give the children a bath. The children were laughing and playing in the mist. The photographer gave each child a lollipop, and the children…

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The more disciplined adolescent children become, the more rebellious they become. What should parents do?

Let me tell you a story first: It originated from a Greek fairy tale and tells the story of the hero Hercules. One day, Hercules went out and walked, and suddenly he found a bag on the road. The mouth of the bag was tied up and it looked bulging. Curious, he stepped on the bag. I never thought that instead of being crushed, this bag seemed to be enchanted…

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These 6 invisible controls are destroying children’s motivation

Child complains about parent: You have always controlled me. Parents counterattack: No matter how much I control you, I do whatever you want. The conflict has become somewhat heated, with the father-in-law saying the public is right, and the mother-in-law saying the mother-in-law is right. Today we are going to talk about several types of \”letting go\” that you think may be a kind of control in children\’s feelings – invisible control. \”It\’s up to you.\” Little A said, \”I don\’t want to…

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\”I personally destroyed my child\’s internal drive…\” Before the age of 12, these behaviors must not be done. Parents should check it no matter how busy they are.

Last weekend, my cousin came to my house with her nephew Leilei as a guest. As soon as I entered the door, she asked me to complain: Not long after school started, the class teacher reported to me several times that Leilei was distracted in class and was always unable to concentrate. After I got home, I watched him do his homework in person, and the results were great! Sometimes I pick out rubber, and sometimes I go to the toilet. If I don\’t urge him and yell at him, I just put it off. I did it just to be perfunctory…

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Did you find it? Most mothers who live a \”very relaxed\” life around them have three excellent qualities.

At the weekend high school class reunion, old classmates who hadn’t seen each other for many years recalled the past and chatted about the present. What makes people sad is that after being away for half their lives, everyone has the same title, either dad or mom. The difference is that compared with when we were in school, we no longer talk about gossip, dreams, and studies, but focus on the daily necessities of life and our children. when…

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The class teacher reminded: I usually do it wrong in the exam. The real reason is not carelessness, but \”lazyness leads to stupidity\”! (Must read for parents)

A few days ago, I was chatting with a parent. She asked me many times to pay more attention to her children, because she thought: \”My children are not stupid, they are just lazy. As long as they keep an eye on them more, their grades will be better.\” There are many parents who have the same idea as her, but they don\’t know that this This is the biggest reason why children’s performance cannot be improved. Writer Mao Dun once said: \”If a person with high talent is lazy by nature…

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If you want your child to do well in the exam, you must tell him this sentence early

June is exam month. A few days ago, the college entrance examination just ended. In the past few days, high school entrance examinations have begun one after another in various places. Even primary school students are about to have their final exams. Although it is said that the examination paper is just a piece of paper, the future is a painting. But honestly speaking, who takes the exam doesn’t want to get good grades? Especially the high school entrance examination and college entrance examination are more important…

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