Domestic violence: If you can’t even control your emotions, everything will be ruined sooner or later

In the past two days, a person named Liu Zhoucheng has dominated Weibo\’s hot searches. This person became instantly popular and became famous overnight. Who is this person? Never heard of it before. But the Supreme Lihe group is still known, and he is one of its members. He became famous because his wife issued a divorce statement on Weibo on the morning of the 17th. The content directly accused Liu Zhoucheng of domestic violence against him six times, including during her pregnancy. This can\’t help but make people jaw-dropping and shocking. After all, his previous image was that of a handsome man, and he also showed off loving photos with his wife and loving fatherly photos of his children. Some netizens ridiculed, \”I didn\’t expect you to make headlines in this way. This should be the pinnacle of your career as a singer, right?\” He was not famous when he sang, but became famous because of domestic violence. Others said that after reading your Weibo, they feel hypocritical and disgusting. How can you bear to do something to your pregnant wife? How can I do it? Someone commented: How can such a person deserve to live in the world? At the moment of the violence, he was indeed no longer a normal person. He must have lost his mind and conscience. The reason why people are human is that they have a basic conscience and can control their own behavior. \”You are the marshmallow in my heart, the sweet dream. No one should let go of the hands holding each other. Go and look at the distance, all the happiness and hope. Spread our wings and we fly freely…\” He once sweetly performed \” \”Marshmallow\” was still in my ears. Who would have thought that he would punch her and give her a poisonous candy? The vows we once made when we were in love sank silently at the bottom of the ocean… What a great irony. Because of love, I had not interacted with my family for several years, but I decided to walk on the red carpet with her. After getting married, he didn\’t cherish his wife and beat his wife until she miscarried. Divorced and remarried. She still didn\’t know how to cherish her remarriage and continued to commit domestic violence. The wife couldn\’t bear it and decided to divorce. This plot is really unbearable for my little heart. If you love, please love deeply, if you don’t love, please leave. If you do this over and over again without repenting, the victim is not the only one who suffers? No one involved is happy. Someone has already dug out the \”behind the scenes\” and came to the following conclusion: This is a complete scumbag. Being able to turn against his own mother because of you shows that he is cold-blooded. Sooner or later, he will turn against you too. It’s okay not to get a divorce, just get 5 million. Typical money worshiper, ruthless. He believes that a 90-square-meter house does not suit his status, and that living in a big house shows his vanity and makes him a poor man. He does one thing in front of him and another behind his back, posing for loving photos and pretending to be a loving father. etc. If all this is true, it really destroys the three views! It\’s terrible. How is living with such people different from hell? From everything, where can you see the slightest trace of love? It is undeniable that in the very beginning, he might have been moved by her and truly loved her. But what happened later was just deeply hurt. If you love her, you should cherish her and love her as much as you love yourself, or even love her better than yourself. This is the correct way to open love. If you no longer love each other, please be compassionate. After all, you once loved each other. Let go amicably, say goodbye gracefully, leaving a way for the other person to survive and a way for yourself to retreat. When the mountains are high and the rivers are far away, when we meet again in the rivers and lakes, we can still shake hands with a smileHug, say \”stay well\”, and wish you peace. An aunt I know was beautiful and capable when she was young. She had her own career and was the envy of many people. But since she got married, she has become increasingly haggard and has lost her former glory. Later, not only was he not envied by others, but he became the object of sympathy. Why? Her husband has violent tendencies and would take it out on her if she had any trouble, punching and kicking her. It was common to see her with bruises on her eyes and nose, and scars all over her body, and she would come to her parents\’ home crying. Her parents were heartbroken that the apple of their eyes was subjected to such violence, and they supported her to divorce and leave that bastard. Seeing that she was about to get divorced, her husband immediately changed his face, admitted his mistake, knelt down, slapped himself hard, and cried bitterly, saying that it was because he loved her and regarded her as the person closest to him that he would vent to her when he was unhappy. . It\’s so funny, it\’s pure ass logic. The one he loves most should be himself, so why not take it out on himself? To put it bluntly, he is manic, selfish, and cold-blooded. For the sake of her children, she continued to spend some time with him, but unfortunately the spring she expected did not come. He committed the crime again and again, and tortured a beautiful girl into a haggard middle-aged woman. She finally gave up and left him with her children. After her divorce, I saw her several times, and each time she became more energetic, the smile returned to her face, and she finally returned to her once glorious and charming self. It is said that the difference between domestic violence is zero times and countless times. The abusers\’ routines are almost exactly the same: attack, apologize, attack again, apologize again… They are addicted to domestic violence, leaving the abused in darkness, making life worse than death. They even have a high-sounding reason: Hitting and scolding is love. The reason why I hit you is because I love you and don’t want to lose you. You have to understand me. I\’m not willing to hit you, I just can\’t control myself. Pull it off, don\’t take the blame for \”beating, scolding, or love.\” People are flirting and scolding to cultivate their sentiments, but your \”beating\” is murder and abuse, and it has violated the law. If you can\’t even control your own emotions and behaviors, how can you control your life? How to run a good marriage? You can\’t even control your own emotions. Even if I give you the whole world, you will destroy everything sooner or later! If you can\’t show love, don\’t provoke others, harm others and yourself, bring disaster to others, and you will suffer endlessly. When you raise your fist, you also raise your butcher\’s knife. Not only is the opponent\’s body injured, but his heart is also cut into pieces. To the domestic violence scum: Please get away as far as you can and practice cultivation slowly. If you don’t practice well, you will stay in a lunatic asylum for the rest of your life.